I met this cute girl a few weeks ago and on Friday we met at coffee house and it goes well. We agree to meet next Friday for lunch. However I want to let her know I'll pay. I would feel weird say "I'll pay for you"
2006-10-29 13:29:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. You just pay it when the check comes.
If she reaches for it, or asks, then be smooth. Tell her that you wouldn't ever forgive yourself if you didn't get to pay for her lunch today.
Do not make a point of letting her know that you're paying. It's weird and dorky.
2006-10-29 13:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the waitress brings the check, just grab it up and pay without saying a word. If she offers to pay something - just tell her to leave a tip and you have the rest. Or if you have to pay at the counter, just tell her you will pay and insist that you are doing it because you enjoy her company. Don't talk about it until the situation arises though, if you don't want to feel weird.
2006-10-29 21:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say anything just grab the bill and say I got it. Don't make a big deal about it too as if she owes you something now. Just make everything flow as if any devious plan of yours is just a natural occurence. The talent here is required when you want the girl to pay for you.
2006-10-29 21:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the check comes pick it up immediately and just pay nothing has to be said in advance.
2006-10-29 21:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by dsmiling62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the moment for payment comes say you will pay for it, pull out your wallet, get some cash and give it to the casheer/waiter.
2006-10-29 21:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'today it is on me', 'i'll take the check', 'today i got some money n i want to pay for the lunch'
2006-10-29 21:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by pumpinkhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T PUT IT LIKE THAT. SAY," WHEN WE GO FOR LUNCH, IT'LL BE MY TREAT!" OK? OR DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL! WHEN YOU GET THE BILL, JUST PAY FOR IT. YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE TO SAY YOU'LL PAY FOR IT. JUST SURPRISE HER. GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN!!
2006-10-29 21:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you asked her out, then say since i asked you, i'll pay.
2006-10-29 21:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't say "I'll pay", say "its my treat" instead.
2006-10-29 21:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by maimai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The expression is: "My treat."
2006-10-29 21:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋