How do I make it a date?

Question

I started to like this best friend of mine three months ago. Finally I decided to ask her out on a date in a couple of weeks and see how it goes. The problem is, we often hang out together but just as friends. However this time I kind of wanting her to feel it's different. How do I make it feel like a date (without too much physical contact)? Any help is appreciated!

Answer 1

Take her flowers. It should only be a small bunch. She will love them and it gives the occasion a date flavor immediately.

Answer 2

Just ask her, tell her that you like her and that you would like to try to make something of it and that you hope she will feel the same way too. Tell her you always respected her friendship, but you have come to like her a little bit more and would like to try to make a relationship with her if she would be interested, but if not you will still remain to be the good friends that you are. Invite her some where, where it will be just you and her and not the whole posse of friends, be honest and if she is not interested then just let it go. Tell her too bad because you think that it might have worked out and maybe is the future she will feel differently.

Answer 3

I always believed that guys and girls can not be friends if they are single and lonely. I just never understood how a guy could hang out with a girl, feels attracted to her, but can never take it to another level. I always have the reverse situations where I would like the girl to be just a friend but it never works out. Anway, one advice I could give you is that if you feel like you can't take the realationship to another level, then the next time you hang out with her or talk to her on the phone just shift your conversation to little more intimate by asking her questions like what color of underwear she likes to wear and make sure you listen and don't get off the subject of sex, try that and see where you end up.

Answer 4

The beach has an almost magical effect on us, its the sounds and smells etc. go for a walk along a beach if possible, all the feel good chemicals will start flowing around inside of her and before you know it shel be giving you all the right signals youre looking for. if that cant happen then always give her expensive chocolate, even just a very small piece, you look around youl find the sort of thing i mean, it will be wrapped special and have an amazing smell. remember quality wins over quantity everytime when it comes to a quality girl, trust me she will notice and shel love you for it.........good lovin to ya!!!

Answer 5

Well if she is your best friend and you do hangout with her have her come over your house with one of her friends and one of yours try to watch a movie then you guys can go to pizza place or something if you hang out with her with too many ppl then you wont get her attention that much.

Answer 6

I would hold her hand, put your arm around her shoulder, cater to her by asking if she wants something to drink. Treat her to where ever you two go, even if it is in a crowd of friends, I would ask her if you could buy her something to eat. Shower her with attention and she will definitely get the message!

Answer 7

Instead of "hanging" out with her--actually ask her out for a date.

Answer 8

Go to a more upscale place to eat, bring her a gift.. nothing to fancy or big. Pay for her dinner. Make her feel special.

Answer 9

Get romance into the date, take her for a dinner on you?

Answer 10

make it clear that it is a date and make it a romantic one by starting it romantically with flowers, to a nice romantic restaurant, subject to talk to about is about romantic things between you and her and avoid friends jokes, and be serious about things that are romantic and makeis very clear to her that you are very serious about her and show it!