I made a stupid mistake. I was pretty sure that this girl liked me and I never talked to her because I really liked her and was way to shy. I was going to try to talk to her after my schedule loosened up a bit just recently, but now im not sure what to think. She went from locking eyes every time we passed eachother (amoung other things) to totally ignoring me. What should I do about this?
2006-10-29 13:09:41 · 9 answers · asked by shadowhawks16713 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit dragging your feet, buddy! Get out there and let her know you think she's someone you're interested in knowing better.
2006-10-29 13:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but this will not go anywhere. A girl will always look you in the eye if she is interested. Not sure how old you are, but you sound young... there are plenty more fish in the sea. Get a willing partner or it will not last, and was not meant to be.
Believe me, you will know - I have been with my man for 29 years and each day has been well worth it.
You know them butterflies and stars and warm fuzzy feelings - if you don't then you haven't met the one.
Hang in there, the more you look, the more desperate you appear. Girls flock to those who act like they couldn't care less.
Whatever you do, have fun with it. Life is too short to be serious.
2006-10-29 21:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just might think you were blowing her off by you being shy and having ignored her from the start. I would approach her and ask her to a movie, or ????, and see how she responds. If she says, "no", then you know she isn't interested in you. Take the first step and see how it goes. Give it a try.
2006-10-29 21:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER. Do you honestly think that looking at her will solve this problem? She obviously wanted your attention, and when she saw that she wasn't getting it, she decided not to give you any of hers. Strike up a conversation as soon as you get the chance.
2006-10-29 22:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably liked you too, but I guess she got tired waiting for you to make a move. You snooze you loose, next time jump right in. If you like someone ,tell them, if they aren't interested they will let you know and then it's time to move on. Someone won't try to kill you just because you tell them that you like them.
2006-10-29 21:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her you were shy, but want to get to know her. maybe she took your shyness as rejection, but if you explain it, she'll come around. most people are quite understanding when you are honest with them.
or write her a note if you are too shy to talk to her about it. sometimes writing it can be better, she'll see what you mean and have time to think about what you wrote.
2006-10-29 21:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by maggiemae821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe send her a flower? lol. Theres lots of posiblities, if you show intrest again im sure she wont turn you down.
2006-10-29 21:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be brave women like taht she probably ignored u beacuse she though u ignored her
2006-10-29 21:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by peter prince 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude u lost her she got a fling lik oh hes cute but its over now u should have just talked to her and took advantage sounding about right from wat u told me about her
2006-10-29 21:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋