I like this guy,we went to school with eachother for a year,but then he graduated.We still talk and we actually saw eachother in church today,and he walked me back home.We were in my elevator huggin and he's holdin me close.I wanted to kiss him but he doesn't feel me the way I feel him.Now he'll tell me I got a fat a**
and say all kinds of things,and I always tell him how much I like him.One minute he'll call me and make me laugh.Then we're having these small message son Myspace,where he will say things that make me think he gives not 1 da*m about me.Then he'll see me once in a while and we'll get all close,then we wouldn't talk for a while.I like this guy and I've never dated anyone and I really like him,and the minute he holds I feel safe and protected and I've never felt that way in any guys arms....Please help me
2006-10-29 13:02:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in my opinion, this guy is not worth your time. you need to be with someone who makes you feel the good way he sometimes makes you feel all the time. you deserve better then that.
2006-10-29 13:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could ask him if somethings wrong. I think that you should let him go. If he doent feel the same way, there is NO chance that things are going to work out. He doesnt know what his feelings are for you if he changes his "Mood" each day. Maybe hes still deciding what his feelings are. I think that you should talk to him, take it slow, and move on if you break up with him
2006-10-29 21:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by The [alter] Black [ego] Parade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if that guy is insulting you and treating you like crap except for the few times where he holds you and stuff, he's not worth it. Trust me. I dated a guy for almost three months and we made out in his car but then he told me it just didn't feel right to him. Meanwhile, I fell deeply in love with him and I still wanted to touch him and be with him. Then finally it was over. He totally led me on and he never really explained why he broke up with me. And I just now am very slowly getting over him. I haven't called him since last March and it's been so hard for me to fight the urge to call him but I know I have to keep myself from calling him. He pushed me in my pool one time and I pretty much knew then that it was over. I felt safe in his arms too!
2006-10-29 21:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Chair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on... He's playing some kind of game...
If you realy want to try something, tell him that it hurts you when he says things like that, and you want him to stop.
if he doesn't stop, you can safly make the assumpion that he doesn't like you that way...
if he doesn't stop, stop answering his calls... or when he leaves a message on myspace, delete it, if he asks why his messages were deleted, say that you don't even read them from him anymore because he would hurt you threw that...
2006-10-29 21:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is move on dear. He doesn't care about you the way you care about him. If he treats you the way that he do means that he's not very interested in you, maybe to have sex with you but that's all. Continue to go to church and let God be your lover for awhile and He will send someone in your life who will love you the way that you should be loved. Never allow yourself to be second to anyone and never allow yourself to be used by any man. God has someone for you, just be patient with yourself and God. God bless you.
2006-10-29 21:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now dear darling, don't waste your time with this tiny little starfish, go and get a real fish, go get a nice tuna. Learn the lesson out of this go make yourself beautiful and get a good one. He not worth a quid. Ignore him he sounds like a mongrel to me.
2006-10-29 21:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is playing on your emotions. One minute he make u feel secure, then the next he is dissing u. If I was u I wouldn't take it. I would tell him at least how u feel and tell him u don't appreciate the comments.
2006-10-29 21:07:23 · answer #7 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way... you never know he might like you to just might be scared to say something or scared you don't feel the same. Just tell him.
2006-10-29 21:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_girl_snglnlokn2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend sounds like he is fickle. You say you have never felt this way before, but you also say you have never dated, so who are you comparing him with? Could it be that you're in love with being in love, not with you friend?
2006-10-29 21:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to be you're friend and through off you're intrest in him at the same time, the only thing he may want from you is sex he doesn't want a relationship
2006-10-29 21:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋