I was told by my friend a guy confessed his love for me( through her) And It was not intended for me to know but she told me anyway. She even told me he could never talk about anything else except about me. He is only 14 and im soon 2 be 13 and I only saw him once! He doesn't even know me. When he climbed the mountain he was screaming he loves me and asking to be with him. And when he saw a picture of me he grabed it and kissed and hugged it. I will never touch that picture because it has been molested. He was even thinking about dirty thoughts about me. This was shocking to take in 10 seconds and I have no feeling for him. And it hurts me. I got a quesy feeling in my stomach and I can't stop. What the *** is wrong?
i was not there at the time when he did all this.
its scary because a guy spends all of school staring straight at my soul and doesn't blink and tries to touch me. And several guys asked me out and said no and another guy likes me. But I like another guy. What is going on
2006-10-29 13:01:50 · 8 answers · asked by Cero 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok the guy who likes me isn't in my school.
2006-10-29 13:10:31 · update #1
Don't let this one 14 yr. old ruin your chances with other guys that you like. Around that age it is not uncommon for guys to get overrun with new feelings towards women. This isn't love, just a new set of strong emotions that he thinks is love. For real love you need to spend time together and to let it grow. Don't worry not all guys get this way but this one guy seems to have. You don't owe him anything and should tell him to leave you alone and that he is acting creepy (to be nice do it in a direct way but without other people too close by). Then start spending time with the guys that you like. Hopefully you will find one that is better suited to you and you will both enjoy each others company. This first guy will get the picture and move on or your 'new BF' will probably get a bit hostile towards him.
I hope this advice and explaination helped you out, hang in there it will get better :).
2006-10-29 13:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's going on is that you're very young and over dramatizing things. A young boy likes you and you don't like him. There's nothing else to do. Move on and forget what, to an older person, is a normal occurrence that should not take more than a few seconds of a grown ups time.
Grow up.
2006-10-29 21:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what's going on either! I'm confused. Just gently tell him that u don't like him that way cos u hardly know him. Tell him that u have ur eye on some1 else and u think it wud be best if u 2 just stayed friends. Then if u want, u can express ur feelings 2 ur crush. GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-29 21:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to tell some authorities to get this guy to leave you alone. Tell a school counselor or something! Either that or push him hard when he tries to touch you. You need to defend yourself, girl! I don't want you to get hurt!
2006-10-29 21:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Chair 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is obsessed big time. Try talking to him but if you still feel uncomfortable or he tries to get physical tell an adult.
2006-10-29 21:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Muffin Cakes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to the guy. I would say ignore him, but from what his behavior is like (from what I read), he will still continue with this behavior. If you do talk to this guy and he continues on with this 'obbsession' and you are still uncomfortable, talk to an adult. :)
2006-10-29 21:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's wierd.....
Anyway get to know him and if u are meant 4 each other things will click. If they don't break up with him.
2006-10-29 21:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Snowboarder91 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell away from him.
2006-10-29 21:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by Aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋