Is it because you like variety???
2006-10-29 12:59:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mainly because of something your partners not giving you. or sometimes it can feel like a high or the thill of getting to know someone new. i hate cheating its SO wrong. but there are many reasons for it.
2006-10-29 13:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by fluffywuv101 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All men like variety but some prefer trust and dependability over variety. Relationships that are purely, physical usually supply the need for variety but loving relationships require several forms of communication, social expression and emotional intimacy and committment. The latter things will prevent mature lovers from cheating because cheating destroys trust, communication and emotional committment and these things take longer to establish and are ultimately, more rewarding than "variety"..
2006-10-29 13:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't cheat now... but have in the past.
With my experience, it was because I was missing something that my lover couldn't provide. A good time in bed (truth).
But there's probably a lot of reasons someone might cheat. Maybe they are trying to breakup with their lover, but don't know how. Maybe they are afraid of commitment.
And it could be possible that they like variety.
2006-10-29 13:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Carla N 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um, 1.) I don't have a "lover", 2.) I would never cheat on my "lover"/"boyfriend"/"spouse." If I even was thinking about something like that, I would go to a counselor! I'm not saying that I think it is wrong, immoral, etc. I'm not trying to judge here...I'm just saying I wouldn't do it. I would never be able to live with myself if I did either that or hurt someone physically (well, unless it was for self defense purposes).
2006-10-29 13:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Chair 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe because the other speicies gets board with its lover
but if there really in love .very very in love not if there fake in love
well you no what i mean . if its real love then they want cheat. But if there a jigalo thats a whole different other story
Hope i helped
2006-10-29 13:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kassandra H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't need to cheat on my lover!
2006-10-29 13:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by MTAWAMI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I cheated b/c I felt like he didn't care about me. And that he thought I was just a booty call. He rated me out of 10 and he gave me a 3.1 out of 10.
2006-10-29 13:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my case yeah. :( I was going thru a tough time with my father dying and my mom being sick. (and I am a sex addict)
2006-10-29 13:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋