Ok. So, my two best freinds, Elizabeth and Jordan, and I are the three most popular people in a my highschool freshman class. It's a small school so everyone is in everyone's buisness. One of my guy freinds Andrew likes girls for their bodys but doesnt admit it. He likes me when Jordan isn't around but when she is, he's obsessed with her. Then another guy freind, whom I like, Daniel, doesnt like me but he is my freind's, Jordan's ex-"boyrfiend" (didn't really date), and so that's complicated. So Andrew says i'm really mean but I always try to change and he says that Jordan has really changed, but she got even more self centered and he always tells me to take other people's feelings into consideration. I NEED HELP!!
2006-10-29 12:54:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I have a few tips.
1. Don't be snobby
2. Don't spread rumors
3. Don't hate anyone
4. Be yourself, don't change because someone tells you to
5. Don't get caught up in other people's drama
6. Help your friends out and don't get mad too easy
7. Let stupid things people say roll off your back
8. Don't worry what other people think about you
9. Find your true friends
10. Smile a lot
Good Luck!
2006-10-29 13:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of you guys are a "hot mess"!! Sounds like someone went to high school with a middle school mentality. It's like everybody finally got a little freedom and don't exactly know what to do with it. Is anyone studying anything except EACH OTHER???
"he don't like me, I like him, he don't like me if another chick is around, it's her ex boyfriend but not really, WOW!!! Are you serious??!!
This is tangled web and you and your so-called girls are gonna end up fighting over those silly boys and you will be more than popular in school, you will be the talk of the whole high school. Negative talk at that. You all need to calm down and enjoy being in high school.
Pull yourself out of that mess and grow up a little. Just because you are in high school (and just got in there), does not mean you have to have a "boyfriend" by any means necessary.
Don't like or go with a boy at your little high school. If you have to talk to someone, try to meet a boy who goes to another school.
Jordan sounds like the "hot" one with one boy being her ex and another one obsessing over her. Another boy noticing that she has changed. Jordan has all the boys!!
You and Elizabeth should just go on and make sure you are getting straight A's and let Jordan tend to boys. Be yourself, don't try to be something that you are not.
2006-10-29 13:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by geminisista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it sure sounds tough being young thesedays. Youve got to follow your heart and dont let your mouth take off without your brain first being in the right gear, in other words be very careful of what u say, words cut like glass and can give guys the real turn-off if they sense youre being b1tchy, selfish or fishing for compliments. just be kind to yourself and polite to others and things should work out in your favour, you sound lovely......good luck in all your relationships, remember you get back what you give, good and bad.
2006-10-29 13:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by genieejj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously. High school drama exists because people don't know what they want. Be yourself always and the drama will never again affect you. That's what I learned in HS, anyways.
2006-10-29 12:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice, b/c this is what I did, don't get involved with the whole "dating" scene til after high school. I'm serious. I didn't date until college... such a relief. I avoided all that shet in high school and middle school b/c I was witnessing it enough from my peers.... total bullshet, totally useless, totally pointless. Other than that, I dunno... it's typical high school shet... figure it out.
2006-10-29 12:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off get a life you sound like you are in ******* junior high
2006-10-29 13:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your mean change if not be yourself & don't worry about anything else...
2006-10-29 12:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by solymar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats to much drama for me.......why do you people care so much what everyone else thinks?
2006-10-29 12:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by fluffywuv101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i hate drama.....
sorry about your situation... just tell the people that if they cant be straight up with you, to get lost.
2006-10-29 12:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by GRETCHEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure youre in highschool?
2006-10-29 12:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋