Not all feel this way but what is it about Caucasian women that black men find attractive?

Question

I have nothing against the white race at all considering a lot of my friends are white. My question is hard to explain. For one, in school, there are a lot of interracial couples. However, most of them are a black guy with a white girl. Not once have I seen a black girl with a white guy. I know they exist. I have seen it before, just not as common. What is it white girls have that black men love? I know not all feel this way, but for those of you that do, what is it? If you feel another way, please express your opinion.
This is a study for school. Keep in mind this is not to offend anyone.

Answer 1

its not just the black men who likes the white chicks but the white women responde to them becoz they have 3 legs

Answer 2

I hate to even say this, and I must first say that most of the time, this is probably NOT the case. The slavery that took place in this country was an ugly, demoralizing travesty. It makes me ashamed to be white. I know I'm not explaining it right, but I think, maybe even subconsciously, black men feel it's a way of "revenge". I know that is not the right word, I don't know how to explain it. I'll tell you one thing, it pisses white men off fiercely, exspecially cops, for some reason. Probably cause they're the only ones that can use an "excuse" to cause strife for these couples. I happen to prefer black men. And not for the reason that most might think!! And frankly I envy black women. I think they're beautiful.{ and they're not missing anything!}

Answer 3

I understand what you are seeing. I have several different inputs on this and could go on all night. My 1st perspective on it since I was a teenager growing up in the 1990's I went thru that in school also due to one, I grew up in the suburbs of Chicago, and there was of course an over abundance of caucasian vs black,so if I black guy was arrogant enough to pull it then he would. Most of the black men that I went to school use to laugh with their friends and say that the "white" girl gave them anything they wanted like getting their own way with her and money. This gross thought process has not left society, on thinking that he can prospect better and try less by laying on a white woman and not having to work hard for what he has and wants to get. Why struggle when you can have someone hand it over to you. I have had white girlfriends who dated black men and they all got used for that purpose alone. This negative gross indulgence stems back from our roots. The black man was told for hundreds of years that he "can't" have something like a white woman or look upon one, now that he has the right, he takes it for granite and abuses it. I have yet to meet a black man who truly dated a white woman for positive reasons like he thought she was interesting and sweet along with attractive rather than for the wrong reasons like "cuz she is white" what kind of sh_t is that? I am a black woman who has never dated in the "burbs" because most of them go after the white woman for wrong reasons. I have almost always dated in the city of Chicago in the hood where I know I am gonna get what I am looking for, a real mutha phukka!!! Exhibit A OJ Simpson - Exihibit B - Kobe Bryant, I can go on all night.........

Answer 4

I have been told that a black man will date a white woman because she will do what a black woman won't do. A white woman will do anything for her man and take care of him and bail him out when he is in trouble and not give him any attitude about it and she will stick with him and give him money when he wants it and she is more agreeable than a black woman is. This is what I was told by a black man however I personally don't agree but if that's what some people think oh well.

Answer 5

Here is my thing and im not trying to offend anyone as well. Maybe if you think of it this way black men might have a more open mind. Maybe have you thought some of the black girls are to stuck up or scared to date out of their race. As you know girls already have a stuck up attitude naturally and maybe black girls just dont want a white man. Guys are always easy going and arn't close minded about alot of things. you got to think maybe its not the black guys but the black women.

Answer 6

I agree - there seem to be a lot more black man/white woman couples than black woman/white man. Could it be that sometimes, the black men are just trying to piss off their women? For whatever reason, especially in non-long-term relationships, it seems that the guys are just making statements. Whatever the reason, as long as two people are happy, it shouldn't matter.

Answer 7

We don't have the "ghetto booty" LOL!! JK JK.
I don't think color is a factor when someone decides to date someone. I have heard that black men think that black women are just way to drama oriented. Very bossy, condiscending, sneaky and manipulative, and insecure. But I think that is bologna, I mean white, oriental, and hispanic women can be the same way! Also I have heard it is a way for them to rebel. And also indicitive of black men who are ashamed of thier race, or in the middle of an ethnicity crisis. Again I think it is all bologna. I don't think race is a factor in finding love....Oh let me see, she has a great personality, she has a good job, car, no kids, or cute kids....the woman of my dreams!!! Oh wait, she's black, Houston that's a no go. I repeat, Houston retreat she is African American! LOL c'mon get real!
It's all excuses, and further more, I find it outrageous anyone should have to answer why they choose to date whom they do for any reason!!
Ludacris!

Answer 8

I feel that there is more of a sense of real feminenity (if that is a word) in white women (and to see the alternate negative side of this is helplessness..hehe) than in black women. Black women seem stronger and more independant relatively speaking than most white women. I know there are strong white women, it's just that they give off a sense of vulnerablity that some men find not only attractive, but helps them feel more manly themselves.

Answer 9

Personally, I don't believe there's something different that the caucasian woman is doing to draw a black man to her. It could be her personality, the way she carries herself, or that he finds her very attractive (inside and out).

On a side and helpful note, I recommend that you ask men who dates outside their race to get an accurate study. This will be so helpful in completing your study for school as well having an accurate one.

Answer 10

I have noticed that too and I am thinking that maybe it is just that caucasian women can be like a mystery to them. Some of the traditions that are held in their families are different and they have been exposed to different family values a lot of the time. This is not always true though but I thought that it just may apply to some.

Answer 11

It is very touchy questions. Black men are attracted to a white woman simply because they found a qualities that they didn't find to a black woman, it could mean many things. But whatever it is, it is their freedom of choice.