Person A: Someone with whom you feel the world melt with their kiss and they treat you like the man/woman you deserve to be treated like but they are not a good provider. Just say this person keeps pressuring you to have a child yet quits a new job about every few weeks and it leaves you both unsteady on paying your bills and always on the move.
Person B: This person is cute bot not very sensitive nor has much of a clue about how to treat the opposite sex (sometimes hurts your feelings) but is a great provider, holding down steady work, taking you and your family on fun outings and is great with children.
2006-10-29 12:29:02 · 11 answers · asked by americandream1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like person A has no clue of what he really wants but has a good heart while person B has no heart but has a good charm.
No one is perfect but if I were to choose,I would choose neither.
When you have to choose in dilemma,it often leads to resentment and lots of ''what if''s till the end.
Your heart knows best ;)
2006-10-29 12:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. You don't wanna be w/someone who isn't a good provider. How are you gonna provide for a child when you can't hold down a steady job.
Looks aren't everything. If he isn't treating you fairly, why would you wanna marry him?
But wait, is this hypothetical or are you seeing 2 different guys?
2006-10-29 20:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PERSON B
Sensitivity can be cultivated with commmunication. A person who is stable shows he is a planner. But what do you mean by hurting your feelings, hurt by doing hurting stuff, for instance, cheating, or just insensitivity; words that hurt you.
Communication could help to change that, if the man loves you, he will listen to ur say and both of you can come to compromise.
Without basic financial security, nothing can be done. People in love still need bread and butter in the long run. Your children will need them badly. I rather lead a life by myself that having burdens to take care of him and children.
2006-10-29 20:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by goldware 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find Person C: one that is exactly what you deserve and will treat you right and not hurt you and is a great provider and all that good stuff..
2006-10-29 20:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_girl_snglnlokn2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Person A, I would tell that person to put first things first and the rest will follow, get off to a good finantial foundation, then the child, and the good life will follow.
God bless.
2006-10-29 20:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by Pray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
person A but presurre him to sit steady and provide cuase its better and read bloomability becuase guy sounds like father in book.
2006-10-29 20:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by watev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not marry either one. I hope that you find person C!
2006-10-29 20:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysconfused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are totally imature... haha
2006-10-29 20:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by joelliew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PERSON C: ME
2006-10-29 20:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A
2006-10-29 20:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by SwordDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋