She has been in LA her whole life and her kid is 11 she has reservations about bringing him so far away from his freinds and family, but I can't leave my job its the best one I have ever had. I bought her a beautiful ring to ensure my comitiment. It could be the deal breaker
2006-10-29 12:23:07 · 11 answers · asked by Philip H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take her for a visit first so she knows what she is getting in to.
2006-10-29 12:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by dekkfm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You forgot to say "Where" in Alaska. Some of the major cities would be okay, but taking an 11 yr old out of LA to Alaska may be just too much.
2006-10-29 20:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a lot to ask to have 2 people change their lives and move up to freezing a$$ Alaska from Calif. THats like trading a brand new luxury car for a radio flyer wagon.
2006-10-29 20:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relationships are a give and take, especially marriage. you two are going to have to work something out. rings don't ensure commitment. they're just pieces of jewelry. try to find a job around where she lives. either that or tell her that kids can make new friends. however, i have a feeling that she doesn't want to move as well.
2006-10-29 20:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her kid is more important than you. She needs to stay with her son who needs to stay where he is with his friends and family. He should always come first, until he is 18, and you need to support that.
It's sweet that you want her with you so much you have bought a ring and want to marry her. Her son, however, and his growth and maturity in as stable environment as possible is more important. You say your job is important. How important is she? People have all kinds of jobs in LA. Find another one.
2006-10-29 20:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Margie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well buddy you are asking for quite a bit...how about moving to cali hu? why not? so only you count, is that what you are saying? seems like you are saying its easier to move 2 people from their roots then to move 1. By the sounds of it, you are not even from alaska, seems like you just work there. but ohh well, in my opinion take it one step at a time and yeah if she loves you that much she will do it...its a big step
2006-10-29 20:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by jmol72001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her do you really want to move all the way ther? ask her why all the way there?maybe there are some issues and shes probably thinking know that shes engaed she could move far away from them?that's probabilty.Who knows? And tell her about how her kid might feel about this moving thing.
2006-10-29 20:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Shyshy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is meant to be it will all work out. If she really loves you then she should understand and nothing will get in the way. I know if it were me i would go. She will never know unless she tries. Take her for a visit and give her time to come around. Good luck.
2006-10-29 20:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A fur coat for both of them may be needed too lol.
2006-10-29 20:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by dsmiling62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy the kid a snowboard and a season lift ticket.
2006-10-29 20:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋