girls what whould u do??? if u were me??

Question

What I my suppose to do??
K my bf is so sensitive and I just don’t know what to do I want to leave him but I love him, like yesterday we were suppose to go to the movies after work, but I promise my sister a week a go to baby sit for her for, so I called him and I told him that I had to baby sit, he go mad and didn’t really want to talk to me and he said! I will call u back bye, soi waited for him to call he didn’t call and I called him left a message twice he didn’t returned my calls he didn’t call me for like 2 days??? Should I call him and see what’s up or wait for him to call me he so sensitive he does that all the time if he doesn’t get his way he will he doesn’t talk to me he will say I will call u later and hangs

Answer 1

Well, in one way I can seee that ghe is not sensitive and, yes, he has a temper,and not the best character. He must be understanding and that is the most important thing.

If you argue a lot then it is a bad relationship. Don't mess up attraction with love. For two people to love each other you must be able to listen to each other, trusts to each other and help in difficult situations.

This guy seems as he either is really childish or he wants to break up. If you had arguements before like that and IF (only IF) they were your own fault he could try this to show you how it feeels like. If he feels like you making out with some other guys behind his back quite often and make excuses a lot he can get wrong impressions.
And t could be a cause of him losing trust in you. If all above are wrong and ou are faithful to him and honestly love him and stuff than he is just being a jerk. How could you blame someone for just asking to move date on some other day or say that you can't come.
I honestly think there more to it. Think about it. He must have a reason, it can't be just like that.
He either have a reason on your previous relationship (like loads of arguements from either side, especially yyours) or jelousy because you hang out with other guys a lot or tons more could be or he just wants to break up an that's the way to show that he lost interest in you. Just an excuse to end relationship.

Im trying to look on both sides and Im not criticising either of you.
I hope that will help you to understand your guy, it could just be that he just needs to grow up and understand what real relationships are about. And possibly you need to learn the difference between love and attraction/interest (no offence in that)

Best of luck and wishes, Wolfy.

Answer 2

You know, to be brutally honest with you. You need to leave that alone, he's not sensitive, he's playing you out. If someone loves you, they have enough in them to tell you when they have a problem, and for him to cut you off and not call you for 2 days because you had to babysit for your sister, f*&@ him fa real. Family comes first, imagine how bad he'll get the farther along it goes. Love is love, but dont let him make you look foolish over him being selfish. Thats what he is selfish, not sensitive. Take care mamas.. keep your head up, get sexy, go party and find a new one. too many good men to waste time bothering with him.

Answer 3

It sounds like you're always on your toes with this guy and you have to watch what you say and consider his feelings, even with innocent little things.

How long have you been together?

He sounds like he gets aggravated easily and you can either wait half the time for your bf to be a man and treat you like his girl while he blows off steam, or maybe you can consider leaving a relationship that is more trouble than it's worth?

You can call him, but if things don't get better then i think you need a serious talk with him about how he overacts to things or end it. It could be alot better for you in the longrun.

Answer 4

you cant really expect for your boyfriend not to get mad but then on his part he has to be understanding of your affairs as well. im not saying you should call him 24/7, because then your making it seem like your begging him to talk to you. As a couple you guys should be understanding and not take things the wrong way because then thats when the real problems begin. somebody i know, had a situation like that their partner would cancel on them constantly and it brought trust problems into their relationship. you have to spend quality time with your partner and with family as well because its just brings balanced relationships with everybody you know. If you said that you had to baby sit then maybe you should of invited your bf to babysit with you so that you can do it together and also include him in your affairs. Good luck.

Answer 5

I wouldn't put up with him. He sounds spoiled because he can't have his own way. And, he is making you suffer not calling you back for two days, what kind of guy that loves someone do that to his lady? He needs to grow up. I would give him an ultimatum, grown up, start treating me with respect, don't be such a cry baby about something simple in life, or hit the road! Too many guys need to sit back and say to themselves, is it worth getting mad over my lady babysitting for her sister, or whatever other problem they have. Life is too short! You don't need to put up with his attitude. He definitely needs an attitude change!

Answer 6

I don't mean to answer with a question but how old are you two?

That said..you asked what would I do? I would drop him like he was hot.

If you are tolerating a man that has a severe lack of emotional intelligence you are wasting your time.
Get rid of him and get a real man for a boyfriend.

Things come up in life and we have to be able to deal with these things in a responsible and mature manner. Causing pain to someone that disappoints you is abuse.

Run...and don't look back.

Answer 7

You need to sit down and talk to him and tell him that you love him but u cant take it when he says hes going to call you back and he doesnt let him know how u feel if that doesnt work tell him u think you guys need to take a break and see were u guys are headed in the relationship

Answer 8

ok well u say u love him; iz it a love him thing or an in love with him thing. those are two totally different things. my ex did some thing like that excpt it wasent cause i called off a date.. it was cause he said i loved my dog more than him...ne wayz i kept calling him and eventually he answered..also my friends called him to find out y he was mad at me...i dont no if this will help but i thought id try newayz

Answer 9

if he really cares for you...he would never make you feel guilty or bad about anything...sometimes guys play these games bcuz they feel insecure...but it is also 'sometimes' the girls that arent helping the situation....although it makes the man look bad...guys need the reassurance....there needs to be a fine line set between the two of you...if you let this go on for too long he will then think it is ok to act this way....so let him know and stick by your guns...do not feel sorry for anyone ever...they dont deserve to be felt sorry for...

Answer 10

That is not sensitive, that is childish. Let him through him fits, but don't run after him. If he sees that he can get what he wants from doing this he will keep it up. Best of luck.