I'm stuck! I feel like killing myself right now. There's this boy at school, i met when i was only little, he was always there for me, until grade 9, we got into a bit of an arqument, i though we got over it though! But i guess not. He won't talk to me or anything. Then there's this other boy, i went out with him last year, he dumped me, called me ugly, sent me letters, and called my whole family ugly, i blocked him from msn, he was talking to one of my friends and told her to tell me to unblock him so he could ask me out again, I don't know what to do! I have to go now, but if you want to email me then i'll tell you the rest!
2006-10-29 12:00:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear kayal,
What are you getting yourself into. Why are you getting mixed up with all the wrong boys. I cannot make out what your age is but I suggest you go through some of the answers I have given to similar questions and you will get the reply.
Good Luck>r
2006-10-29 23:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who was that much of a jerk to you the first time around, even post break up, most likely won't be that much nicer the second time around honey. He just sounds like an idiot to avoid to me.
think about it, he wants to ask you out on messenger instead of in public like a gentlemen with guts would do.
But if there's more to the story i ought to know, just email me and i'll listen. k?
2006-10-29 20:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by Li'La 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just going to do the same thing as he did before and you shouldn't risk it some people just don't change and he sounds like he's well on his way to being an abuser and if you let him he will just keep doing it to you. you need to find someone that will treat you like a princess.
as for your friend if you're truly friends a little time will heal all wounds
good luck
2006-10-29 20:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Anybody that treats you like meat is definitely not worth your time. He's just going to repeat the cycle again, and probably when you least expect it. Find somebody better, you deserve something more.
2006-10-29 20:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the given situation it is advised to just evade for a few more time. if u like him then just send him a one line message "Ok what u want to say now". if find some decency carry on otherwise dump.
2006-10-30 01:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by mphns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey listen...killin urself over somebody is no solution!!! ok i agree that u feel so sick that killin urself feels as the best way out but thats not true...trust me i hav been thru this..i mean thinkin bout killin myself...not gettin dumped by a guy!!!
so wat do u do? 1st of all...do u still like him? if not them wats the problem about? but if u do then u gotto think and realize - wat is it that i like in him? if its something not worth ur efforts or something which u liked then but r not bothered about now (like his new look?), then forget about him! coz 1thing is for sure..this guy cant control his anger and thats really risky as well as really bad!!!
Finally speaking..its not something which i can or sombody else in the world can guide u upon...u gotto take the decision....so think - is he really worth u?
by the way m not sure about ur age n all but take care of that too...sometimes, in early years, it is just a crush which hurts badly later!
2006-10-30 00:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Ask Me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i think you should not unblock the guy how bad did he treated you just leave him aside life does not stop you will get better friends
2006-10-30 02:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply say no
becoz he dont respect u n ur family.
he pnly want to satisfy himshelf.
dont unblock him he will start flattering u
my name is raj 18 male india
u can email me at rkl_gameboy4011@yahoo.co.in
2006-11-02 13:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't you dare go out with your last year again cause he's sooooooooooooo last year!!!!!!
now,...........about that guy you met when you were really lil........
you're just going to have to ask him what's bothering him now....
you said he was always there for you.......
why not trying to be there for him for a change
maybe he needs help..........
2006-10-29 20:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by creastian909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget both of them. Get someone better than these two.
2006-10-30 04:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋