My boyfriend and I have dated for a year and a half, however the last 2 months or so have been different, he hadn't been putting as much into the relationship as he used to. Then yesterday he said he couldn't do it anymore, that this isn't what he wanted anymore. This news killed me, Im all torn apart inside. I cant make it stop and everything I see seems to somehow make me think of him. Now I already know he's hanging out with other girls and stuff and its driving me crazy. How do I make the hurt stop and how do I stop thinking about him? Please help me!
2006-10-29 11:27:49 · 5 answers · asked by KeyWestKrissy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dang, who you callin a hoe?
2006-10-29 11:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by 00jag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for your loss , and i wish i could tell you how , however noone has an exact asnwer we can only guide you or help you with advise of things that may may not have helped us anyway i do know how you feel so do most of us on here , without sounding cliche Time thats the only thing , but you have to realise that you deserve better , from the sound of this you have realized that it was heading this way and didnt want to see it as now he has moved on and you havent yet , you are on a different timetable and once you realize this and many other self discoveries you will be able to move on , do not fight it accept for what it is , do not down yourself , hang with your freinds , talk , cry laugh , ( in whatever order you choose ) and whatever you do dont give up ! know there willl be someone else and hopefully bettter to Love you !
2006-10-29 11:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by A c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seem, in case you quite want him to stay you want to furnish him his area, without being sarcastic, murmuring less than you breath such issues as "notwithstanding," or nagging him after he in basic terms were given abode. provide the guy some area, ok? in case you want to have a lengthy effective marriage, you want to charm to close that you'll believe him and once he sees that he will understand you more effective. Marriage is about sacrifices. 2d off, you're very pleasing, each and every woman isn't any count number what. you want to devour more effective...I recommend, your butt will come decrease back, so will your breasts. do in basic terms not get beauty surgical operation. And each and every time he's out with a lady, don't be a "stalker" and commence comparing your self...once you commence trusting and doing all of your own component....you'll have your existence decrease back. Praying facilitates a lot too. keep in mind, you're pleasing ok? desire this helped!
2016-12-05 08:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by mallie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say that there is no quick fix. There is only time, and believing that it will get better. Then slowly one day you won't remember the exact color if his eyes, the next you can't remember the scent of his cologne, and then one morning you will wake up and it doesn't hurt anymore. One other thing, it always help me is to express my feeling through journal writing sometimes it gives you perspective to see it in writing.
2006-10-29 11:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by raynesonyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang with friends more, they can help.
2006-10-29 11:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋