When I'm dancing with a girl up close or even when grinding with girls, where should I keep my hands?
Normally I hold a drink in one hand so that only leaves the other hand to worry about. I usually hold/caress the girl. Suppose I have no drink in my hand, should I just use my arms as they're used as I naturally dance, or should I really be holding on to her while she grinds- especially if we like each other?
I'm guessing it's probably the same if she's got her back to me or we're dancing close face-to-face, right? I've been told by some that you should just dance close and let the girl do what she does best and not touch her.. but I feel like that's a little too reserved and unattached. I want to have a connection.
I'm talking about college/university parties mostly, just in case you were wondering.
2006-10-29 11:25:55 · 8 answers · asked by Yosh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First put the drink down, it defies belief that you think so little of the dance that you have to have your booze during it. Both hands around her waist or one there and one across her shoulders. If she wants them anywhere else she'll let you know and without risk of spilling anything.
2006-10-29 11:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Robert P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As an older person, its interesting to note that there is a protocol when "grinding" someone of the opposite sex...
2006-10-29 11:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should put your hands on her hips, not her butt, her hips. This allows her upper body to move freely and lets her decide how close to you she wants to be.
2006-10-29 11:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Around neck.
2016-05-22 06:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One hand on each boob should make her feel pretty special........
2006-10-29 11:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your hands should be on her hip
2006-10-29 11:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONE HAND DOWNE YOUR PANTHS HONS AND THE OTHER ONE ON HER,, BUNS HONS!!
2006-10-29 11:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one hand on her crotch, the other between her *** cheeks.
2006-10-29 11:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋