ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years we are both young i'm 18 and he's 19, but anyway we always have sooooo muuuuccch fun together, yesterday we had went to the state fair and we had soo much fun we rode everything together and he won me prizes and stuff but all in all we had a good time and last night he didn't want to leave my side when it was time for me to go home, and now today he acting kind of funny...maybe i'm just being paranoid or sumthin...but he acts like he doesn't want to talk to me today, and i wuz suppose to go see him today but he claims he is tired so i didn't go see him...so wut do u think
2006-10-29 11:25:46 · 5 answers · asked by Taquila (Celtics Fan) 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Guys need space sometime. Not nessecarily "space away from you" but "space to himself"
2. Sometimes girls see/feel what they want to feel, and it may not be an accurate picture of what is going on on his end.
5 years is a long time. Don't question it because he's acting a little weird for one of those days ;)
Still, any lasting relationship is going to be built on communication. Give it some time, then ask him about it.
2006-10-29 11:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by _Zith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like nothing is wrong, but the best thing you can do is ask him whats going on, if you have fun together and have been going out for five years I highly doubt that he is going to change his mind over night. Guys love confidence in a woman, maybe don't let him know that you are overly worried about him not feeling like being with you. Though keep in mind, confidence does not mean making a fool of yourself or being full of yourself. Its normal to want to be by yourself for a day, that is not an insult to your company. It sounds to me like he really loves you, don't sweat over this. Hope this helped, goodluck with your boyfriend!
2006-10-29 11:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by ~peace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys act funny all the time, keep in mind they tend to be more straight forward with their emotions than girl so he could be telling the truth. But if something is really bothering him and if he starts being rude towards you when you try to talk to him then just back off. Wait until he cools off. Just try doing something else in the meantime and hang out with other friends or something. This happens to me quite frequently.
2006-10-29 11:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Antigone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kneed to talk to him.I hope you guys stay together you soud im love and you should be together.See how he feels and whats going on.
~alicia~
2006-10-29 11:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by baby_girl_forever89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have his time to himself.......guys are odd creatures.....one day they are all over you and the next they want their space and "manly" time......so don't call......and he will call tomorrow.....no worries......
2006-10-29 11:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋