I miss my ex-boyfriend. I miss his lips, I miss kissing him, I miss cuddling in his bed. But it never went further than that, we always kept our clothes on, cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. He was 24, lots of previous relationships while I'm 20 & he was my first boyfriend and first kiss. It was only a month, but felt longer cuz we saw each other a lot.
I guess he may have left due to lack of sex, but I'm still not 100% over him. But I don't get it cuz he liked how I was so pure and unique. Also, a lot of guys hit on me and some people even think I look like Angelina Jolie. so I don't get why he would rather be with a skank who puts out, than be with a pure, beautiful girl like me?
Why do you think he left? and yes, I have a good personality, he said I was the sweetest girl.
By the way, he still contacts me on msn sometimes 'just to say hi' but I don't see his point when he dumped me? He says hi very rarely,so I doubt it's a 'booty call', so why the contact from him?
2006-10-29 11:22:20 · 8 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way to know for sure is if he fesses up. It's pretty shallow if he dumped you for not having sex with him, but it happens. If that is the reason, you're better off without him.
2006-10-29 11:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he left because you are a high maintenance whiny butt! Or, it could be because you say, "I look like Angelina Jolie." Number one, she isn't all that attractive and if you think you are, well that would be enough of an ego to turn me off right from the git go even if you are "a pure, beautiful girl."
2006-10-29 19:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that he dose not want to be with you, take it from a guy who just so happens to be the same age. see the thing is he feels with the time he put in with you just kissing and hugging in bed, that he has paid his due's and it's time for you to pay up as well. Granted, a month is not enough for you make a decision as to weather or not to give up something that you have been holding on to for so long, however in our minds it a lifetime!!!
2006-10-29 19:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by The long Road Home 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be feeling bad about dumping you and also kind of nervous that he won't be taken back that most likely explains the occasional "hi" Perhaps strike up another conversation with him and start to slowly veer the subject to your breakup and see what happens from there. If you still care about him then go ahead see what happens and I wish you the best of luck
2006-10-29 19:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by Abyssion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is afraid to commit to marriage for some reason..
You sound like you would make a wonderful wife to some lucky man..
You sound like you should set yourself up to become someones
"Trophy Wife"...An older, mature, wealthy man who will give you security, safety, loyalty, and a stress free life of leisure...You get a good pre-nup guaranteeing your financial security in exchange for your love, loyalty , virginity and being the pride of his life...
You could parlais your virginity & beauty into a multi million dollar marriage......No offence...You are a real gem....
2006-10-29 19:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you but your not ready to be an adult yet, he likes you if you were a woman but your only a little girl. Face it your out gunned not by skanks but mature women who see sex as part of life
just becuase you have sex doesnt make you a skank, perhaps it is that silly immature part about you that made him leave
2006-10-29 19:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by mohamed jihad dirka dirka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give it up so he moved on. At least he respected you enough not to force you into doing something you did not want to do. He is just checking in to see if you have changed your mind about sex even if he does not ask. Move on, he has.
2006-10-29 19:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by fijisun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him not us --- you may even get a straight answer --- if it was about the the sex then he is not worth anything
if its something else then you may be able to fix it up
2006-10-29 19:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋