I mean, they just cant keep up with me! this is why im bi now. maybe i am too intense for them. i like to do things like smoke weed, eat shrooms, drink booze, listen to heavy metal/goth/darkwave music with the lights off (i have a flashing party light that makes things look more party-ish) i like to cuss a lot sometimes. ive also been to jail on possesion of weed. but im a sweet girl too! im a goth, but i am now in the process of going to college! so how do you view me?
2006-10-29 11:21:00 · 15 answers · asked by Little Black Riding Hood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It demonstates that you have a OPEN mind and are willing to try new things. I've never taken shrooms, but i understand that they alter conciousness. I think you attract the wrong type of guys. You should focus on attracting " a guy who can keep up with me and also accept me for the person I AM, completely, truely, unconditionally. A guy who can make me laugh and will make you feel good, the way that you truly want."
You seem like have a "live for right now" type of mindset, which is awesome, because when you think about it, RIGHT NOW is ALL that matters. If the guy/girl you're with doesn't stack to what it is that will truly fulfill, truly satisfy you, then move on and look for that guy/girl that will ( Both in your case :)
There's nothing wrong with booze or weed :)
You've been to jail for having weed, so i guess some guys might see you as a bad girl (ooohh...), which might scare them off.
I don't feel that it's a matter of them not being ABLE to keep up, it just that they aren't WILLING to keep up. There's the difference.
Find a guy that can show you that he is MORE THAN willing to keep up.
What is it that you really like about goth music?
And what's darkwave? Is it like evil techno or something?:)
The Puck
2006-10-29 11:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Amir C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I view you as someone who is making poor choices. The dark / goth thing can be interesting, but the drugs and getting busted just makes you seem like trouble and a loser. Foul language is usually a sign of someone who doesn't have the education to speak better or won't put the effort in to be civil.
I think you're going to have to make some changes if you want guys to see the sweet girl.
2006-10-29 19:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by gerardw 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
May be they think there's a possibility of getting arrested if they hang out with you for too long. You might not scare them off, just bore them because you don't like to live in the real world. You like to escape with drugs and you're too busy being a party girl. In the long run they wouldn't want to marry someone like that or accidentally get them preggers.
2006-10-29 19:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jp83 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i could take about 5 minutes with you ( it would be so sweet) like a shot at the end of the evening but i view as a twister - spinning arouuuund..... making a mad mess of nature ( but part of nature to! ).
You seem cute from your pic, so you probably get away with murder! if you were a fat ugly chick nobody would put up with it man!
Hey thnkx for the best answer though!! Much apprciated!! How about another :-)
p.s weed corrodes the brain bigtime!! i rarely touch it dude ..well only once every 5 years if that just for a giggle!!
2006-10-29 19:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you look hot, but the weed and the drinking are definitely going to turn a lot of guys away. If you accepted God into your life you would be amazed at the change. And I know that you would attract more guys like that. No matter what you hear, there are plenty of guys who like a good girl, especially one that is as hot as you.
2006-10-29 19:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The drugs would be a turn off. Personally I want to be with someone who is not under the influence. I'm sure you're sweet, but when you are drunk or high, it probably doesn't come across. Be who you are without the substances.
2006-10-29 19:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is about them not being able to keep up with u its probably that whole "growing up" factor ...and not very many guys I don't think want a girl that sounds like a trucker every time she speaks ( referring to you cussing all the time)
2006-10-29 19:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
With the exception of the drugs, everything else is cool. That's an image you project. But personality counts for me much more. If we get along, then who cares what everyone else thinks. I think you sound great, to he!! with what everyone else thinks.
2006-10-29 19:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by devlish_blu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll be a total mess by thirty... and lucky to be alive by forty...
Well you asked... You should concentrate more on the "sweet" girl inside of you...
2006-10-30 09:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by deakjone 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of 'shy' guys that really dig freaky. The straighter they look, the freakier they are.
2006-10-29 23:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋