I like this guy but I've never met anyone like him before. He doesn't want to talk to me in public, he just wants to stare at me from across the room. He flirts with me online. He says he has a girlfriend but she lives like 40 miles away. He won't tell me anything about her. She doesn't spend very much time with him. He asked me to meet him on a Sat. night, we talked for two hours. He asked me a lot of questions. But he told me I'm not allowed to ask questions. He is so dreamy, Is he just leading me on.
2006-10-29 11:16:36 · 16 answers · asked by Canswer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just forget him.Dont you think theres a reason why he says you arent allowed to ask questions?She doesnt spend much time with him because she is probably his WIFE and he is spending all his time chasing a**.Thats why you know nothing about her.If you already know for certain he has someone, what is there to pursue?If everyone who went out with someone who they KNEW was cheating,would THINK with their head first,how they would feel if it were them being cheated on,this world would be alot less screwed up and more disease free.Just because someone is "dreamy" doesnt mean they are faithful [obviously in this case]nor does it mean they will be faithful to you or that they wont give you a gift that keeps on giving.
2006-10-29 11:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by migamw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. You can do better.
He should not be pursuing you if he is involved with someone else. It does not matter what the circumstances are. If things are not working out between him and his girlfriend, he should end it or try to improve it. Cheating on his girlfriend is not the answer. This behaviour proves to you that he is a liar and a cheater. Are they the qualities you look for in a boyfriend? If you do, than he is perfect for you.
He is only interested in having sex with you, that's all. That's why he he is flirty, stares and won't let you ask him any questions. He is not interested in a relationship, he is looking for a warm hole to masterbate in while his girlfriend is away.
2006-10-29 11:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by funandsun20 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think about this for a minute, he's keeping secrets that your not allowed to ask about, is ashamed to speak to you in public and is admittedly cheating on his girlfriend. What is the attraction?
2006-10-29 11:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by alltheanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds really creepy...and who is he to tell you that you cannot ask him any questions? He may be dreamy...a lot of guys are dreamy...but you really need to be thinking about yourself and using your head and not your hormones. He obviously doesn't want you knowing anything about him....why? Good luck gurly...protect yourself and your best interests first!
2006-10-29 11:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like a real winner!! It sounds like he is doing more than just leading u on, what that is I'm not sure but if I were u I wouldnt stick around to find out!! He sounds really spooky
2006-10-29 11:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by nellnell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you heading for troubles and when you mentioned that we talked for 2 hrs with him questioning me seems like you have commit ed a crime and you have to wait for your lawyer to come to answer for you.Is this what you call a date ? Come on wake up .. and he is cheating on his girlfriend and he can do the same to you ..
2006-10-29 11:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's married.
Or otherwise equally dangerous to become involved with.
Get away from him!!
2006-10-29 11:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM. Are you sure it's a girlfriend and not a boyfriend he's cheating on?
2006-10-29 11:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound delusional, like my ex-wife, daughter and present (and soon to be former) girlfriend!!!!!
2006-10-29 11:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a weird fellow.. i hope hes not controlling.. it could lead to worser things
2006-10-29 11:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kim Buns 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋