what do i do?

Question

i love this girl and we went out and everything was going really great but then this girl come up to her and told her that i was dating her and i love her and now my gf thinks i cheated on her. i tryed to tell her thats not true but no luck.what should i do now?

Answer 1

you might want to confront the other girl and ask her what the F*** she thinks she's doing. she doesn't have a right to mess up your relationship like that.

however, it is true that your relationship might have other issues if your girlfriend doesn't trust you...but it might not be that she doesn't love you, it just might be that she's insecure and this makes her feel like she's not good enough for you, or like she's being used and doesn't want to be played for a fool just because she loves you. just being nice to her and treating her well seems more like an apology than proof that you're not cheating...so tell her again, beg her to believe you, and again, confront the other girl. sounds like this other girl has issues and wants to mess it up between you, and if you shoot her down now maybe it won't be too late to save your relationship and take care of your problem. good luck!

Answer 2

You can tell her that she can choose to dout you from now on, but instead of that why doesn't she look @ the other girl and how she wants to rune ya's relationship, because the only reason this second girl came to her and told her that is out of jelocy or out of truth, well it seems its out of jelosy so, just tell your girl that instead of beeing mad and think that your are cheeting on her, she should wake up, and start seeing. Relationship is based on faith in each other. everyother thing like that can just make ya stronger instead of beliving whomever, and what they want to say about your partner.
I hope that make sence:-)
Good luck.

Answer 3

try and tell her a bit more about what the other girl is like. or try and find a way to show her she can trust you, reassure her. the thing is, if you had cheated alot of guys would say they hadnt done it when they had. it's a shame that the other girl is just trying to cause problems for you. i would just be patient and keep doing what your doing.

Answer 4

not sure if it will help your situation but POLITELY as you can confront the girl about it with your girlfriend and let the girl know that you don't appreciate her trying to ruin your relationship just because she's jealous or whatever it is and that you love the girl you're with and she doesn't need to come to her with that nonsense. Hope I helped! =D

Answer 5

Write a short letter

commit your feelings to paper,

tell the truth

If a woman meets two men of equal attractivness
but one is honest, who will she go for?

Answer 6

That is a tough one. But that same thing happened to me. My boyfriends ex came up to us in a bar and tried to throw salt in the game. But we made it through, I honestly thought he was really talkin to her. Your girlfriend is just gon have to trust you, if you can't trust one another then the relationship isn't gon work anyway.

Answer 7

tell your gf the truth again, and if she still doesnt believe it, then you should say, if you still dont believe me, and i've told you the truth, then i guess there's nothing else i can do. this will get her to think on it, who is she going to believe, you or some random girl? good luck, and if she doesnt believe it, she isnt worth it.

Answer 8

If she's dumb enough to believe her friend, then you deserve a better girl anyway.

Answer 9

tell her that there are a lot of jealous people out there. tell her if she knew you, you know that i love you. good luck.

Answer 10

if she doesnt believe you then theres basically nothing you can do, its really crappy but thats the way it is... unfortunately she doesnt trust you anymore, sometimes its because some guts are so shi.tty...