the girl i really like has been awfully nice to me. once again, i don't want to be too pushy. it was just a coincidence that i saw her in the library the other day. it was so cool that she signaled for me to come here and we had a little talk. the funny thing was that there was a small moment of silence until i asked her could i study with her. she was so inviting and said yes. during that time, i finally got the chance to talk and let her get to know me a little better and i got a chance to know her. she was so nice that she ask me to join her and her friend for dinner. i accepted. i had a good time. the only thing that was weird was that there were times she would get a little quiet and it worried me a little bit. still, i enjoyed it and i love the fact that i can put my feelings aside and say she is a good friend. the problem is that i know deep inside i really like this girl. what should i do?
2006-10-29 11:09:08 · 9 answers · asked by mikerob08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she was nervous call her dont be a jerk or wait 3 days do it now
she likes you people do that just give her a call and see how she is
2006-10-29 11:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off don't worry about her being quiet for a moment or two. She is probably just nervous like you. And she obviously thinks of you as a good friend already if she invited you out with her and her friend. Just take a chance and ask her out just the two of you. Good Luck! I know you'll be fine!
2006-10-29 19:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Alyss K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, dude! By the way, there's a chance that she asked you out with her friend because she wanted to check out the waters without it being too obvious. CALL HER IMMEDIATELY. Tell her you had a wonderful time and would like to hang out again sometime soon. She gets one more time with a friend of hers tagging along and that's it. After that, ask her out on a date- make it clear it's a date- and if she says no, then I wouldn't try and be her friend because then you'll just be wasting your time pining over someone who rejected you. If she says "yes" then congratulations!
2006-10-29 19:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Alski22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like a girl, you should ask her to see if she wanted to go out sometime like to the movies or something romantic. Even if she says no ask her if you are still friends and don't get pushy or mean, she might not be ready to go out just yet!!
2006-10-29 19:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason she was probably getting quiet is because she's probably starting to realize she likes you. And she probably doesn't know how you feel, i think you should just tell her how you feel. If she likes you back, then you should ask her out. And if she doesn't like you back, then you should just stay as friends with her and don't push her to go out with you.
2006-10-29 19:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her to go to the movies with you or dinner or something.
2006-10-29 19:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. im in a similar situation myself, except im a girl. this guy i really like has his moments where he's really nice to me, and when it's just me and him, at first there was that awkward silence between us, but the more i hung out with him, the more he appeared to be a cool guy, and i just liked him more. i didnt know how to approach him after that, and i still do feel shy around him from time to time. i guess what im trying to say is that mayb she's starting to feel more and more attracted to you and it's got to the stage where she doesnt know how to act around you. i know it does happen in girls quite often. i mean, it's happened to me b4 and i've never really liked a guy b4 until now. this girl may not be like me, as i just recently told the guy in a msg how i felt towards him, even telling him that i like him, and was surprised to find that he's still talking to me. and im really excited now because my guy friend asked him if he wanted to come to my birthday party, and the guy i like told me himself face to face that he really wants to come to my party and is looking forward to it. well, enough about me. in your case, i think at first she was drawn to you but perhaps didnt like you until she spent more time with you. when a girl is nice to you, it just means that she's interested in getting to know you better, but when a girl starts to feel shy and doesnt really know what to say to you, it means she really likes you but doesnt really wanna say anything because she doesnt know how you feel towards her. im not sayin u should tell her right away how you feel, but somewhere along your friendship with her you hav to tell her how you feel b4 the both of you hav moved on with your lives and it's too late
2006-10-29 19:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and then then have a short, interesting conversation with her. If she calls you back the same night then that means that she's interested.
2006-10-29 19:13:05 · answer #8 · answered by romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo hmes there aint nothin to worry abou!! just ask her out to dinner but dont do it at lunch wich will lead to just being friends. Girls get pissed when u are to scred trust me just ask her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 19:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by Tanner B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋