Dating new guy after recent divorce. I was married for over 10 years, was a young bride and mom, and am not as sexually experienced as most other women my age. I have been sleeping with this guy for about a month, and the sex has been incredible. Although he does climax during intercourse, it takes him a very long time. However, he seems to climax very easily by rubbing himself against me....my stomach or other various places. I'm too embarrassed to discuss this with my girlfriends and am just wondering if this is normal? It feels so strange to just lie there while he does this....and pretend it's fun for me:) One of the reasons I'm concerned about this issue is because, when he's tired or has had too much too drink, this guy's mannerisms become slightly effeminate. Is this an unusual fetish for a supposedly heterosexual man? I'm probably breaking up with him soon for other reasons but would like to know if this is normal so I'll be better prepared for experiences to come.....
2006-10-29 11:00:58 · 6 answers · asked by salsamama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel for you. I know what it's like to be with someone for a long time and then start dating again. I don't truly think that is normal...I think that is something he likes to do. But be grateful he lasts. My husband is like a kid...he can't control it. I'm glad he knows other things to please me.
Think too...if you really can't talk openly about it...he might not be the right person. I have always talked openly to my husband and still do from the very beginning.
I wish you the best of luck in your new life....weather it be with him or no. Take care.
2006-10-29 11:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by hard rock girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you was buggin! that really would be a turn off, but even though you dont wanna do this your gonna have to talk to your man. no matter how you try to go about it its gonna be uncomfortable for the both of you so maybe you can just suggest that he not make any noise during sex. if he wants to know why then tell him that it turns you off to hear a man make noise during sex and that you think that should be left for the woman to do. dont tell him he sounds like a girl cause i really think that could hurt his ego. also you havent been in a relationship long enough to just tell this boy that he sounds like a girl. whos to say youll be together in another 6 months. if it becomes a real long lasting relationship then you can eventually address the girly sound problem but for now i suggest asking him to keep quiet.
2016-05-22 06:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's normal and I've never heard of it happening with my friends. Effeminate mannerisms is a little strange too. You should ask him why he does those things.
2006-10-29 11:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jp83 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Salma .
and about your question, no is not normal.
take care ,
Daniel, Brooklyn , New York
2006-10-29 11:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by PARCERITO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is WAY not normal!!
He's got some serious sexual issues!
2006-10-29 11:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Johnna L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, this is not normal
2006-10-29 11:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by Homer J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋