So is 20 too young or should i say yes, i love him enough but i dont know if we ouht to wait as i'm at uni and he's doing an appreticeship and might not work out doing tht just know but at the same time he's the only one for me
2006-10-29 10:51:36 · 18 answers · asked by String of pearls 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun if you love him and he loves you back your love will keep you together through everything and anything if its in your heart that he is the one dont miss out on your chance for happiness not everyone gets to be with their perfect someone be very lucky and age is nothing but a number gor for it hun and i wish you the best of luck but the way you talk i dont think you will be needing any.
2006-10-29 10:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by sk8ter_chik_4_u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say no.
Marriage is not only needlessly expensive and effectively pointless.... but nothing really says "I don't love you any more" like a wedding ring.
What that ring symbolises is that the law is binding two people together... and so they don't have to make as much effort to emotionally "keep" each other any more...
That is why marriages tend to end in divorce these days: Because it can be done... and because once you get married to a person, everything begins to be taken for granted... rather than being worked on... and it all rots apart.
I've been there.
I've done that.
Even if I do get the person I'm hopelessly infatuated with now to love me back unconditionally, I would never propose to her.... because I intend to keep everything intact by sheer force of will and concentrated effort.... Not some expensive legally-binding contract.
2006-10-29 18:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your only true, then no 20 is not too young. Try to be smart about it. I was married at 15 and have been married for 27 years now. My mom was 14 and married for 54 years.
It is how much you both want the relationship to last. don't give up on each other. So many people now think it is easier to walk away from each other than to work things out. Good luck to you both.
2006-10-29 18:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well just think if it is love why wait u are getting a man that every women wants. And then if he isn't then wait and just be friends just tell him right now isn't a good time u want to wait a while and then bring it up another time!
2006-10-29 18:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking this question then its a pretty fair bet that you shouldnt just yet. You wouldnt need reassurance if he was the one and marriages these days are tough enough to make last without being unsure to begin with. Follow your instinct on this- it'll make life a lot easier.
2006-10-29 18:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know if it's the right time in your life. If you're a little hesitant...you probably should wait. You are talking about the rest of your life......so be 100% sure.
2006-10-29 18:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in college then wait until you are out.. If you are out or didn't go and if you truffully love him then say yes
2006-10-29 18:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tanner B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a little, if you feel doubtful then you need to wait a little, it wouldn't hurt to wait.
2006-10-29 19:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this on the net here, the answer is NO, because you are not listening to your heart.
2006-10-29 18:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your not sure than you should talk to your guy that maybe your not ready. If your having all these questions than talk to him. You need to make sure you are ready.
2006-10-29 18:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by Britters 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋