MY FATHER IS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MY SCIENCE TEACHER, MR.LADD i have never known that he was a fag and my life is getting really depressing... my mom has no clue at all!
and worst of all its gonna screw up my lil sisters life... does anyone have any ideas of how to cope with this?
2006-10-29 10:27:02 · 18 answers · asked by JulyFourteenth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
omg! that's pretty screwed...i think u should corner your dad and talk to him. tell him that u knew etc...
actually i think its best if u told ur mother... the truth will hurt, but this has to be sorted out!
good luck
2006-10-29 10:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let him know that you know. Also tell him how it is affecting you. Let him know that it is just a matter of time before you mom and your sister find out, even if you do not say anything. It is best that he is up front about it so that everyone can deal with it and move on. If he is the bringer of bad tidings, then he at least has some control over how the information is given and the fallout that occurs. If you mom and sister find out on their own, they will be hurt and angry. The direction of the aftermath will have started and been aimed at him. All his family relationships could suddenly end without him having any input.
2006-10-29 18:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ask your dad what is his problem and try to get him to tell your mom. if that doesn't work you will have to because her life is in danger. but before you do anything you had better be sure there is an affair or else you could cause a lot of people a lot of unnecessary pain
2006-10-29 18:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seriously talk to your mom, and to screw with the teacher, after you tell your mom, go to school and tell the teacher I know what you've been doing.
and then from there, tell the principal to make sure she doesnt try to screw you over on your grades.
Again, TELL YOUR MOM!
Plus, if your family finds out that you knew and didnt do anything to tell your mom, they will most likely be mad at you.
2006-10-29 18:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I find it hard to believe that your mom doesn't know anything. She might be
avoiding the truth so that she doesn't have to deal with it. This is not your
problem. The adults in your life have decisions to make. They will do this
without your help. How do you know this information? If you decide to tell
your mom I think it may backfire on you. Do you have an aunt or someone
else in your life that you can trust? You are the one who is going to need
someone to talk to. Let the adults mess up their own lives.
2006-10-29 18:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by sunnymommy 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
omg that sucks. well u cant really do anything..u can't stop him from doing anything but i wished i could...(believe me). But if u want u can talk to him calmly and tell him u know whats going on and tell him exactly how u feel sad, and depressed or mad watever it may be. be honest and if u feel an urge to scream or yell or cry just stop talking and walk away. people usually say mean things when theyre mad cuz they dont think at that time. but good luck!
2006-10-29 18:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should avoid getting in the middle of the problem.
If you can tell you mom discretely, without her telling your father it came from you, this is probably your besy bet.
Your parents need to handle the problem. You and your sister shouldn't be placed in the middle of it.
2006-10-29 18:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gordo J 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
wow...how did you find out? Make sure you have it right before pointing the finger. Then tell your father first that you know what he's doing and tell him that if he doesn't tell your mom that you'll tell her yourself. She needs to know so she doesn't catch any diseases from him
2006-10-29 18:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You gotta tell your mom and then you gotta let your dad know that you know. After that, whatever happens, happens.
2006-10-29 18:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by rnellwoo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pray about it. Pray for him, for your mom, for your sister and for yourself, and hear what the Lord has to say.
2006-10-29 18:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋