Woman in their thirties?

Question

I have my 38th birthday coming up very soon. I am maybe feeling I am missing something......I feel so young and yet the calendar tells a differant story.....If you could see the two of us you would think I was 25 and he was 62 (he is only 39)...........He has really "grown-up" this last year and I guess I have not and not really sure I want to (least not yet)...Have any of you been there done that and have any advise that might make this any easier?

Answer 1

Sweetheart, I am almost 40, and I am a man. My ex-wife got old way before her time. She was saying, "I am too old for this s**t," before she was 30. And now, she looks it, and she acts like it. She also did not like the fact that I have foreskin, actually a lot of foreskin, but that is beside the point. That was just an example of her tunnel vision. She wants to get old. I do, too, but I don't want to lose my youth doing it. Yes, I have been there, done that. I still get carded for beer at Wally World. Imagine that. My gf just turned 21 this summer. No, it's not a matter of this old guy keeping up with her, but it is the other way around. No, I don't have to use any ED drugs. I just refuse to get old--in the traditional sense. Maam, I mean no offense by this at all, but it sounds like you and I should possibly spend some quality time together. I am only talking about talking. Nothing else. Please don't take that the wrong way. I would love to see a picture of you. No, not a naked one, but one of your face.

Answer 2

I am a man in my late 30's like yourself and i know women like you and too be honest I think like many people of my generation who created a world of extended youth we have confused being energetic,forward looking, hopeful,open with youth as though there are no slothful, backwards,pessimistic,closed minded youngsters. Not having the material struggles of our parents and with a world full of toys and opportunities we put off the traditional trappings of adulthood till later in life.We see it as a choice between having or not having fun. When the choice is really between taking what we learnt from this point in life and taking it and moving on developing finding fun in other places. This must be a conscious effort. It wont just happen. Your partner has grown up in the proper sense of the word, just like a caterpillar must one day turn in to a butterfly so must you.
If not now when. You do have to decided.

Answer 3

People think I am strange because I and cant wait to be thirty-something...I am 27 and look, feel , and at times, act like a much younger girl.....youth is a state of mind, but if you have a commited relationship with this man you shouldnt just throw him in the gutter and go buy another, so to speak. relationships are comprimise and understanding and sticking through things even when they are tough. who knows, the tables might turn and your 'apperance' may catch up to his....what matters isnt how you look with him, its how you FEEL with him. if he makes you happy, love madly....if not...have fun lady! the world is your oyster!

Answer 4

i have been through both those ages and i love being "grown up" i still feel 18 and i look better and know more than i did at 18

dont try to make him look less than his age but maybe he needs to look his real age --- attitude dress grooming can all make a difference --- why does he look 62??

Answer 5

Thirty...Flirty...and Thriving!!!

Answer 6

If he looks like hell, get another guy. As long as you get laid, what difference does it make. Just soak him for the cash like all the other women do.

Answer 7

go find someone you are interested in and go from there and have fun

Answer 8

Just do your thing