2006-10-29 10:13:23 · 18 answers · asked by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...a gentleman in public
...a gentle, passionate, and affectionate lover when you're alone
...self-sufficient
...not afraid to show how he feels
...attentive without being obsessive
...strong, yet gentle...nothing to prove
...self-confident, but not arrogant
2006-10-29 10:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by suziq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The definition is subjective. Sometimes women are more "real men" than men. It all depends on how many of the criteria that YOU set he is able to fulfill while, at the same time he is honest with you and himself. And remember that people (both you and he) change with time. So, a 16 year old "real man" in a 16 year old girl's mind would probably be an "infantile show off jerk" 30 years later if he stayed the same.
2006-10-29 10:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by I Drum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, a real man is one who knows who he is and knows what he wants. He's not someone who will bow down to peer pressure and will stand up to the crowd if they want to change him for who he is.
He's also not flashy, he doesn't need to flash the ice and wear expensive clothes all the time or try to show off with his car. He has enough self-confidence to know his strengths and weaknesses, although he'll be willing to listen to others and admit when he's wrong and when he needs help.
He also should be willing to take charge and be a leader, instead of being browbeaten or be swayed by the words of those who seek to be hangers-on.
2006-10-29 10:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bookworm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real man is defined by his actions not by his words!
2006-10-29 10:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by telis_gr1 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A real man knows how to treat a real woman!
2006-10-29 10:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A "real man" is a man of "substance," and not a worldly sort. The default setting is the worldly sort, but some are able to get free.
2006-10-29 10:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is easy for me because I have a real man. He is strong when he needs to be. He is sensitive when he needs to be. He puts me back together when I am falling apart. He helps me around the house. He knows exactly how to please me and when. He knows when to leave me alone. He takes care of me when I am sick. But he wouldn't do any of these things if I did not do the same for him.
2006-10-29 10:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a real man can stand up for his self and his has goals{school and/or job}is reliable,honest,responsible i can go on and on about what i think a real man is but ill stop here
2006-10-29 10:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definition: No Clue!! Or a real man! LOL
2006-10-29 10:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A man that still has proper etiquette for a woman.
2006-10-29 10:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone who dares to cry, that's a real man.
2006-10-29 10:15:18 · answer #11 · answered by citrusy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋