NEED advice please!?
theres this guy that i really like and today him and some of my friends (girls) were sitting around a desk talking about everything, it was great...we had A LOT of heated discussions about things. it was weird though because I seemed to immediately always take HIS side when we were all arguing about a topic. He made a lot of good points and stuff and plus I guess it helped that I like him so everytime I would side with him and go against the people who were against him. My question is would a guy think that...
a) this girl is obsessed with me, why cant she make her own decisions
b) its so obvious she likes me
c) we seem to have to the same views on things...awesome!
2006-10-29 09:46:06 · 22 answers · asked by amber k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it depends on the way u showe dthat u were on his side. maybe the answeer can be between a) and b)
2006-10-29 09:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to have somebody back you up in an argument whether they like you or not. You said he made a lot of good points, so good for you for backing him up. SO what if you like him? It doesn't make you a stalker. You would have probably been able to tell if he was annoyed with you. As long as you weren't being obnoxious or anything...have you got his number? You should get his number so you can talk with him...if you're a little shy just tell him you want to talk about what you guys were debating about. Good luck!
2006-10-29 18:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the same questions too. I like a guy, and I wonder if he thinks I'm obessed with him.
A) I think that he enjoys you going on his side. If you agree with his wonderful ideas, then that's great. That is how politics work.
B) It isn't obvious you like him. He may think that your only being friends with. I'm not a boy, so I can't fully answer this question.
C) If you have the same views on things, it's truly awsome.
My advice to you is call him on the phone. When your home, just give him a call. It might give him a sign, and if he likes you, he might ask you out.
2006-10-29 17:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by shewolf2899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as you don;t make it that obvious that you like him, I would say that he thinks you and him have the same views on thing "awesome!"
However, you can't always take his side, not now and not ever. You have to have your own standards on thing and ideas and beliefs. If you agreed on absolutely everything you may be on the spot, but keep it on the DL. As long as you didnt make it TOO obvious then you're ok.
2006-10-29 17:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are not made with the same cloth, so this particular guy is the only one who can tell you what he was thinking while all of this was going on. If you really need to know, go up to him and ask.
2006-10-29 17:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say that he probably thinks u 2 have alot in common maybe he might also think that u like him well if you were flirty at all. but mostly id go with ur c) anwser. But if he doesnt realize that u like him than make it known. guys dont always see the obvious.
2006-10-29 17:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I would say the answer is , a ) and b )
why you have to agree with him all the time ? Be yourself, and dont run behind ANY guy...even if he would made a good point in a conversation. Just dont run after him.
2006-10-29 17:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by maria s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C--I think you are looking way to deep into things. A guy is not likely to relate your opinions on various issues to flirting. Guys just don't read little signals like that. We are not likely to get that you like us until you touch us.
2006-10-29 17:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am more likely to go with a) Instead of siding with him so much, you should have expressed your own personal opinion.
2006-10-29 17:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem 2 b obsessed
2006-10-29 17:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by fuzzy_bubbles_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋