I was in the same situation years back and I made up my mind to leave for the better. I was afraid at first cause everyone we knew thought that we were happy but inside me I was broken hearted and a coward .. frighten to face the world outside alone and our friends. I am glad that I made the decision to move on and face the fact that he will never marry me and though we had overcome the bad times and enjoyed our good times .. I am alone and is very happy in the sense that my circle of friends are wider and the burden of marrying is out .. for the moment .. Life is too short ... go get some new friends .. good luck.
2006-10-29 11:17:53
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answered by Alicia 1
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Just because people get married doesn't mean they're in love and just because people don't doesn't mean they aren't. If you love him you'll stay and try to get to the bottom of why he doesn't want to marry at this time. Talk with him.
2006-10-29 09:37:51
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answered by will 4
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If you truly love this guy then it is really only up to you dear, but after 7 years I think he is just dragging you down and you probably should find someone else and move on, you would be happier. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-29 09:38:30
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answered by outdoors 1
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Why does he get to run your life? If you want to be married tell him so and also tell him that if it's not going to be him you are moving on. Time is short..why waste it on someone who is stringing you along? I would have been long gone.
2006-10-29 09:38:18
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answered by dragonrider707 6
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Discuss w/him in detail, get specifics and ask yourself r u n love w/him or do u just wanna b married? Talk w/him then make ur decision based on your conversation w/him......
2006-10-29 09:43:30
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answered by cub6ib9 4
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It's time to find yourself a new boyfriend who is willing to marry you.
2006-10-29 09:36:36
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answered by Miss J 7
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Find a new guy.
That one is never going to buy the cow, when the milk is free.
2006-10-29 09:59:57
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answered by Anonymous
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GIRL MOVE ON. HE DON'T WANT TO MARRY YOU BECAUSE HE HAS HIS CAKE AND ICE CREAM AT THE SAME TIME. HOW OLD R U ANY WAY. CHECK YOUR LIGHT BULB BABY BECAUSE HE IS NOT GOING TO DO IT.
2006-10-29 09:40:45
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answered by SweetAngel 1
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if you need a piece of paper to know that he loves you than you don't need a relationship you are too materialistic. you don't need a piece of paper to be loved.
2006-10-29 09:46:54
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answered by jacks5j 3
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leave him. if he's doesn't want to then he doesn't want to !
2006-10-29 09:37:16
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answered by Emy 3
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