I have a longer question on here that really deals with this, but nobody is really answering it, and the person who did answer it, didn't really respond to something I said.
So, here it is:
A friend of mine told her friend that I liked her. She then asked this girl if she liked me. All she said way, "Let's just keep that a secret for now..."
What is that supposed to mean? She told two other people that she didn't like me.
With this situation and the circumstances, does this mean that she likes me and dosen't want anybody to know, or she just likes me as a friend?
2006-10-29 09:29:37 · 23 answers · asked by Snicket 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a small detail to add:
She seems to be making time for us to be alone. When we are alone together, we usually don't say anything to each other, though, she acts as if she is waiting on me to talk to her about it.
All of her friends hate me, though, if any of them say anything about me, she takes my side. I'm guessing that this may be the reason she wants to keep it a secret.
2006-10-29 09:39:54 · update #1
You're better off if you just talk to her (the girl that you like) rather than using a number of go-betweens.
She'll like it better too.
2006-10-29 10:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but she doesn't like you pal. She didn't want to hear that you liked her. And her little comment "Let's just keep that a secret for now..." it really means "I want to forget that and you should forget it as well" But cheer up my friend it isn't the end of the world. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I'm sure you'll find someone who wants to be with you in the special way that you would want to be with her. Until then keep your head up and stay strong. And whatever you do, never date anyone who just got out of a bad relationship due to infidelity. She'll only leave you because she's afraid you will eventually leave her. I know.
2006-10-29 09:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really looks so stupid. If she wants keep this as a secret she can tell every one she hate you too not have any suspicions - for she wants you for sex adventure or what?.
Friends are for friends and is nothing to hide.
So many people involved in this crazy story with to much different information. Just give up and wait what the time brings you up.
Move on and find some easy not play/complicated friendship.
2006-10-29 09:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably likes you as a friend becaue when a girl says lets keep this a secret between you and me that usually means she doesnt want anybody to know that shes dating you or talking to you. She still wants guys to know shes single so she can dump you and go for him like a backup i dont know thats what i would think. Best thing i can tell you MOVE ON!
2006-10-29 09:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by xxalexxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, quit the he said, she said mess. The only way you are going to get a real answer is to ask her. Don't do it in front of a crowd because if some of her friends don't like you, she might tell you no because she thinks that is what her friends want. That also might be the reason why she hasn't told your friend.
2006-10-29 09:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by DLUVDAIMPERIAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young people often act out this way. She does like you but is nervous, maybe doesn't know what to do. It is better to let a relationship happen naturally, this is probably what she wants. Going through so called friends to make a relationship happen is not the way to go. You should approach her yourself and let it develop naturally. Good Luck!
Please report sexyblu, she has issues and needs to be stopped.
2006-10-29 09:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her tell her that when you get the chance to be alone with her again. From personal experience i can say that if you like someone, you don't mind what other people think. If she likes you she must not be afraid to admit it to her friends. I dated this girl i loved and still loves. But because of her friends disliking me for absoloutly no reason, she broke up with me. Altough she still loves me. So if that girl likes you, she have to put her friends feelings aside and focus on what SHE feels. So when you tell her that you like her and she feels the same way, you have to make that clear to her from the beginning. It sounds as if she likes you, so good luck buddy.!!!!
2006-10-29 10:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by wessel c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you as a friend, but might be something more only time will tell. Take Care.
2006-10-29 09:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to fathom the mysteries of these female's psyches without:
1. getting three botles of goodish Bordeaux
2. crroking up a Spaghetti Bolognese
3. inviting both females to your apartment
4. getting solidly drunk
5. sleeping with both of them
Enjoy!
2006-10-29 09:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She definitely likes you and i'd guess she's just playing with you, unfortunately girls can do that sometimes, try asking her to her face if you want a proper response. she'll be flattered and is more likely to answer you straight.
2006-10-29 09:38:29 · answer #10 · answered by String of pearls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋