What should I do, he won't answer my phone calls, he won't even email me. I know he's made at me because I told him I don't want to see him anymore but I just can't go through with it. I need him too much. What should I do? I have no friends to comfort me or hang out with and idon't want to move on with another guy. How can I soothe my bordom and depression?
2006-10-29 09:25:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You need to decide if you want to be with him. what is best for you? If you want to be with him then you need to realize that its going to be rough. I'm sorry. You need to realize that they are plenty of people out there. It sucks, I know. But if its so hard and hurtful to stay with him and never see him then you have to do whats best for you. Try getting involved in something you like. Going to the gym really helps, and can really help you feel better! Just talking to someone can make tons of different. I don't know how long your were together, or if this is your first relationship. But you don't need anyone to complete you. You are a strong woman and I'm sure tons of guys would be glad to be with you. It really sucks I know, but you need to do what's healthy for you. It sounds like you want to be with someone you will actually be able to be with. Try an activity you like doing, that will really help. Things will get better. You could write him a letter explaining how you feel, and mail it to him. Or you could simply write a letter to help get out your feelings. Smile!
2006-10-29 11:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by tuskinini45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you are just fated to break up. It's natural to miss someone if you've had a good connection with them. If it doesn't work out between you two, don't worry about it. You'll find someone else who is just as good - if not better.
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2006-10-29 17:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Maul 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would explore within yourself to find out why you need another person so bad.
My father always said there are a million people in the world, if it doesn't work out with one, it will work with another.
Don't stress it. It's probably not him you miss so much as it is the seratonin and dopamine high you get when you are physically intimate with someone.
2006-10-29 17:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by the guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something better to think about... you can't spend so much time with your thoughts on depressing things without becoming depressed as a result... If you don't like how you feel, then change how you think.
2006-10-29 22:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, does he know you are so miserable? I tried the same thing with my hubby when we were dating. Of course he was the one calling and going crazy, but if he hasnt called you back, leave him a message and leave him alone. He may need to blow off steam.
Then get up, take your friends, and discuss this with them. I went to dinner with my girls and we hada blast, and that was 1 thing that kept me from calling him.
2006-10-29 17:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by SR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gone through this so many times...but the best advice someone gave to me is
THE NEXT ONE...
Do u understand what I mean??
Once you understand, it helps, but that's all he said to me, so that's all I say to you!
~and another friend made
2006-10-29 17:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just 4get about him go 2 the mall or the pool and start w/ someone else in a while you'll be with someone else and have 4gotten all about him. and you can make friends at those kind of places or, if u really love him, e-mail him and tell him so
2006-10-29 17:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sky Eats Delaney! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep urself with close friends
avoid talking or even thinking about him
keep busy
anyways u blew it up
how did u tell him that u dont wanna see him anymore
if u still love him and cant stand being away from him?
:O
2006-10-29 17:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by HG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i would like to know is if you need him so much..why the heck did you tell him you didnt want to see him any more. Make up your mind!!! If he dont want to talk to you I dont blame him. And if he did something to make you tell him what you did then he is not worth worring over..Get over it and move on!!
2006-10-29 17:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by alice g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him and get on with your life.
2006-10-30 22:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋