why are men so heartless??
2006-10-29 09:18:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my god, so many women who are down on men in one question. Maybe if you all tried a little harder with looking after your men you all wouldn't have such bad experiences and end up carrying all this baggage. Build a bridge and get over it. I have had my heart broken by women on more occasions than I care to remember, but I still adore women
2006-10-29 09:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If I was heartless why do I keep getting it broken. Maybe I should be asking "why are women heartless?" You will find the selfish people are heartless because they have not experienced any pain while the good people are the once who know about pain and are able to empathise with others in pain.
2006-10-29 09:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by John T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they have no sense of guilt or hurt feelings. They don't understand what being heartless is, so they wouldn't know how not to be. As you can probably tell i have been on the receiving end of mens insensitivity so understand where you are coming from.
2006-10-29 09:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are the men we get in real life so heartless but the men on here seem to be so loving and caring.... i swear it's all a plot to stop us all from turning into lesbians...lol
2006-10-29 09:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by thenickistar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak for the men you know, I'm not heartless.
On a lighter note, maybe because you women have ripped them out of all our chests.
2006-10-29 09:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by MisterO 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
why ask a question that cant be answered? not all guys are heartless. you women make those guys the way they are. you get a nice guy like me and just want to be friends. so what does a guy do, thinks ok, i cant be nice and they will want to date me. maybe if you went for a nice guy for once you wouldnt have to deal with that and us nice guys could have a good rap for being a guy and not called an asshole and heartless
2006-10-29 09:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I hear ya! All I want is to find someone to laugh with. But seems an impossible venture! Maybe all the good ones are in some small village the majority of the world doesn't know about?!
2006-10-29 09:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are not, you are choosing the wrong men, so it's your own fault. I dislike the way you women generalise. You have one single bad experience with one man, and suddenly ALL men are heartless.
I would love to give all my love and eternal devotion but I'll never get the chance because you women are choosing the wrong men, then blaming men like me when you realise YOUR mistake!!!
2006-10-29 10:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by colin.christie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we're really not ALL that bad. the thing is we're different from you. we can't take hints for a start. If he doesn't take the hint that you want to go out tonight, perhaps you should tell him straight. If he missed an anniversary, it doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, they are just not as important to us as you girls. And if he dumped you for someone else...well, you're probably too good for him anyway! just buy a new outfit, get you're hair and makup done, and turn up somewhere where you know he'll be looking fabulous!
2006-10-29 09:44:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Which one? If you are speaking in general terms, women have to understand that men have more testosterone than women. This provides for a more aggressive nature in men. Because of this aggression, men have the ability to disassociate themselves from situations and walk away. Women on the other hand have more estrogen, which provides for high emotions. That is why women are the nuturers in the relationship.
2006-10-29 09:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by DLUVDAIMPERIAL 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋