2006-10-29 09:09:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
nobut then again I hardly knew them Lostmy mom when I was 5 then my dad thought it would be best to live with his sister(which i see now why he did) & he passed away when i was pregant with his first grandson..he never got to see..I know that i never agreed with my aunt but now i see that she was very right about all the mistakes I made....Please dont hate your parents but learned to see their side & see if you cant come up with a half way mark to meet...even at the time you dont see it try to see their point & you look at the dos & dont,good & bad..I wish now I had my real parents to disagree with...one of my mistakes that she saw was my marriage...she was right for he was very abusive...goodluck
2006-10-29 09:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by jpotts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man....you bet.
I think that everyone has issues with their parents -- its part of growing up. You don't say how old you are, but I remember counting down the days until I could leave for college. Once I was there I could finally be myself.
The bigger question is WHY you feel that you hate your parents and what is it that makes you want to run away?
Are you being abused? Mentally? Physically? Are they ignoring you? Are you ashamed of them? Is there a mental illness causing problems? Do they fight excessively? Drink alcohol? Are they strict? Unreasonably?
Or....are you really rebellious and are they trying to do right by you, but you don't see it? Do you listen to them? Are you respectful? Do you try your hardest? Do you let them in your life?
Most parents want the best for their children and will do anything they can to provide a loving and stable environment. But not every parent can be a good parent. Some people just can't communicate.
You need to think long and hard before running away because that usually isn't the answer even though it might make you feel better short term. Its easier for people to take advantage of you when you are young and on your own.
I think you should talk with someone you trust -- some adult that can help understand the situation and figure out what your options are. Its difficult to do that on your own because you are wrapped up in your feelings.
I wish you the best. Please have the courage to talk with someone about it (aunt, friend, cousin, teacher). It doesn't feel good to live with hate in your heart. Hating eats you up inside.
2006-10-29 09:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just about everyone has felt that way at some time, but, remember that your parents love you and are trying to make the best decisions concerning raising you. You may not always agree with them but in the long run, they are looking out for your best interests. If you have a problem ask them if they would sit down with you and discuss the issue. Things can usually be ironed out. Several years from now you'll be glad that you listened to your parents........believe me, been there done that.
2006-10-29 09:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by one eye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brings bad memories, you could say I know all about that feeling. The longer I thought about it the more my mind weighed up the permutations. They had ways that I didn't like, their attitudes were annoying, they showed little if any respect. They were older, I was younger, I was stronger. Civilisation .............. Laws of the jungle ............ I took my destiny in both hands, picked up a baseball bat and I being the stronger did what the Judge described as a vicious and foul act. Because of my age, I was released after 17 years. I now have the house and all the money that increased with interest over 17 long years. Damn I have won the lottery and paid the price. I wouldn't have it any other way, life is sweet.
2006-10-29 09:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has at one time or another. But, before you do, let me tell you this. I am a Truck Driver and I see about 3 or 4 girls a month on the streets that will do anything just to eat that ran away. Is that a better situation? Work it out at home.
2006-10-29 09:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger, whenever my parent's made me mad, I always planned to run away, of course I chickened out and never did. As I got older, I realized that my parent's made the decisions, that they made, because they love me so much and when you think about it, you have it made living at home, no bills, no worrie's, so it's not that bad.
2006-10-29 09:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl i know what you mean but that will pass. we sometimes want something to go our way and when our parents pop that bubble we want to run away. take it easy and give your parents a chance you don't realize that the hardest job out here is to be a parent. i know your parents love you just take easy and what ever is the problem trust me it will work itself out
2006-10-29 09:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO hate ones parents is realy very alarming situation. Why one NOT hate parents, when one is too weak to sit, to stand, to walk, to eat etc. and totally dependant upon them?
Is it NOT shameful that after one becomes strong on the basis of the efforts rendered by one's parents one start hating and escaping from them? Realy very very sad and disappointing issue.
2006-10-29 09:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a good one for you i am a parent have you ever hated your kids so much you want to run away? i have been fed up and sick to death of spoilt kids. do kids expect parents to live for them? make a living when they grow up? how about i flunked cause i didn't have a pencil ? i hope your parents are not fed up and you are out there trying to please them instead of the other way around as i have no desire to please my kids anymore i say what about me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 09:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! I love my parents to much!!
2006-10-29 10:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋