I am 18 and I have strange feeling that people are afraid of me. When I was little boys never teased me, everyone loved me but no one more or less than anyone else. My mother says that people are afraid because they do not know how will I react if they tell me sth as I seem arrogant. But I am not, I would really like to get to know other people but I have only couple of friends with whom I am not afraid to open myself completelly. Not until now that bothered me, but now I met someone who I would like to get to know better but I know that because of my behaviour I send completelly different message. I dont know what to do. I think it is more in my mind that behaviour because I think too much about what will happen or why it happened what he/she may think or thinks...
2006-10-29 08:20:58 · 8 answers · asked by HarMonia 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i dont really think that u need to see a Dr. this is all part of growing up and experiences and the way we handle them is a part of life. you are still young and havent had the life experiences that you need to deal with the situation. you seem stable enough to understand the problem which tells me its going to be easier to fix than u actually realize. nothing is as hard as it seems. you are just gonna have to open up your mouth and be venerable to other people. its scary at first but were all human. just think of the other people as being as you are. keep in mind that you have family and friends to fall back on to help you through the rough times. dont worry about what people think of you. worry about something u can control. worry is the abuse of the imagination.
2006-10-29 08:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by special 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We live in such an awesome age these days.
Try starting on online conversation with someone, this may help you with your communication skills and any esteem issues you might have. Make sure you use good sense though. there are lots of very good chat rooms right here on yahoo
2006-10-29 16:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sandman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need help just for the length of the question... Seriously though, Why are you thinking so much about what other people are thinking that in itself warrents looking into, On one hand your to young to be that unbalanced and to old to be acting so immature.
2006-10-29 16:29:47 · answer #3 · answered by MKM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See a Dr
2006-10-29 16:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try practicing something simple...like a smile and a positive attitude. Both are "contagious"! Godloveya.
2006-10-29 16:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seeking mental health on a website is like seeking herpes in the bathroom at your local park....
NOT A GOOD IDEA
Talk to a Doc
2006-10-29 16:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by virtualrealitys 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, go see one.
2006-10-29 16:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-29 16:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋