Question about bullying and being cool.?

Question

i go to school , and people are mean to me, and i'm always on the down side, (not happy, bad mood) usually, and I hate it when people are mean to me, and i'm not really mean to them, but my blood pressure rises high i have a short temper, and stuff, and I just want an anwser on how you can get people to be nicer, and respect you more, if you have one for me, please...? ....... and
my temper is real short and i get extrememly mad and can't focus, mood swings, and always in a bad mood.

Answer 1

People will always be mean - look at the dumbass responses you have on here!

Bullying is simply a form to hurt someone else to make that person feel better. If the bullying doesn't affect you - it can't harm you. I was bullied most of my life (and still am as an adult) but I don't tlet it get to me, because I don't want to be cool. I couldn't care less about what people think of me. Sometimes, when I feel like it, I wear a pink tutu to mke myself feel happy. I bought mukluks and wear them with pride and fuzziness. People make fun of me on a daily basis - sometime harshly and violently - but I don't care becasue deep down I know I am a better person than they are and am having more fun!

I am not shallow or mean to others, but I am happy.

Answer 2

Dont mind those bullying you. Just think that these poor fellows have to do so much of their antics just to get your attention (even if it is on a negative way). If they still wont let up, give them a taste of their own medicine.

I remember my husband told me about a kid back when they were in gradeschool. This kid always takes my husbands lunch box and drinks his juice. After a while, my husband could not take this bullying anymore and so he peed on the drinking bottle and let this bullying kid have a taste of his own medicine. He didnt continue being a bully after this incident. And he respected my husband too...

Answer 3

they pick on you b/c they know how mad you get and what a short fuse you have. They enjoy wtaching you get mad and get a rise out of it. I'ts not right, but it's true, cuz ppl used to do the same thing w/me..they would mess w/me bc I am the nervous type and they knew it would make me more nervous. When they bother you, have no reaction, fight your anger, and they will probably get bored w/it. Or, you could use your anger to scare them..but maybe it wouldn't work.

Answer 4

All of the things you have mentioned are keeping you on edge because of the anticipation of what's going to happen. Kids today are truly mean and mean spirited.. The more they bully and get away with it the more they do it. It's also encouraged by their friends and they see nothing wrong with it.. If they were to have it given back they would see what it feels like.. I fell very sorry for you.. Speak to a counsler for advice and try and stick with your friends who don't behave badly.. Bullies are ver UNCOOL .. Best of Luck to you....

Answer 5

If you are not in high school, you can do what I told my son to do. Everytime someone hits your, knocks things out of your hands, calls you names, etc. Go to the consular and get them detention. Do not do anything back. Even if they are not your friends they will stop because it is cutting into their free time.
You are going to have to learn to control your temper, even when you are older people are going to irritate you, just look at people driving and cutting each other off. One other thing, if your parents will allow it, ask to take some self-defense classes. They not only teach basic ways to protect yourself, but they also teach you how to use self control.

Answer 6

people will always be mean. I know what you mean, thats why I quit public school and started doing homeschool online at www.compuhigh.com plus compuhigh.com is a thousand times easier than a public school.

Answer 7

take a anger management class and study it well....meanwhile, ignore them and they might leave you alone.....it will be hard but try to laugh it off...they like to push your buttons, dont let them win....