When you are in a relationship with a guy, is it possible for him to spoil you? And if so how would you bring it to his attention so that he would, not stop but ease it down a bit?
2006-10-29 07:59:39 · 15 answers · asked by ill_state00 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simply "Baby u don't have to spoil me so much" I love being spoiled but at times its a bit much, I love u rather u spoil me rotten or not! All w/ a smile on my face and kissing him at the same time of course.
2006-10-29 08:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a sense yes, a man can spoil a girl. However, it is a different thing when it is a woman,w/ whom you're dealing. A woman needs to be treated w/ much love and respect. There is no way to spoil her. With a girl who has yet to appreciate who she is as an individual, it's possible. If only for the lack of appreciation she'll have for a good thing. She'll most likely let you know her impatience by taking as much from you as possible, until you have nothing left to give. At which point she'll look for greener pastures.
2006-10-29 08:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by shesonit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wonderful for a guy to spoil a girl, This makes to relationship great, so it is no need to ease it down, it is not some thing that you do all of the time, just every once in a while. You reap the fringe benefits!
2006-10-29 08:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is spoiling you, it means he is giving you too much and you might become accustomed to it and be disappointed later when he does not treat you quite the same way. If you can handle the idea of getting extra attention now even if you might not get the same extra special treatment later when the relationship is not so new, and if you are enjoying the extra special treatment, then I'd say let him treat you great! If it's bothering you, you should talk to him seriously about it and give him specifics on how he could change his behavior. In such a conversation, also be open to what he has to say.
2006-10-29 08:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in a serious relationship with anyone, it is part of the inherent joy in it to spoil the other person and be spoiled by them. It's all part of the courtship process, and one of the more enjoyable ones. I wouldn't trust someone who didn't let me spoil them, or a man who didn't want to spoil me in return - I would find them small of heart and selfish of spirit, I think.
2006-10-29 08:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey any guy can spoil a girl, but MOST girls don't really care for that kind of stuff all they want is the real you . Not for a boyfriend that she only dates because wants him to spoil him. And if she really doesn't like it then you should probably listen to her that is enless you want to make her mad.
2006-10-29 08:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by hilary duff fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd never let a guy spoil me. I'd make it totally impossible. If anyone's going to spoil me, it's going to be me.
2006-10-29 15:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would we bring it to his attention for? We are women, we want you to spoil us.
2006-10-29 08:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by csplittail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been spoiled in so long why would I want him to stop.
2006-10-29 08:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by Bopeep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not at all fairly asked me to do something. We merely kinda help instruction manual one yet another into issues we wanna do and what we want executed. We additionally merely communicate/test with all kinds of extremely some issues. The sky is the decrease,lol.
2016-11-26 02:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋