Ok. I'm 14 years oldand every one i know thinks i'm rich all my friends think i am and they ask me to get them everything so i do.... My GF wants everything and wants me to get her the stuff and when i dont get it she gets all sad and mad. But they dont get i'm not ask rich as they think should i stop dateing my GF cause sometimes people tell me shes going out with me for the money or should i tell her i'm not rich as u think i can't just go out and use my parents credit card just for every one or pull out the money i got to get what someone else wants. What should i do? i think they think im rich cause i get everything i want when-ever i want.
2006-10-29 07:55:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is really hard but you are going to have to stop yourself from buying their attention. Real friends do not want your money, they only want your company and friendship. I know you are young and you are learning real early what being used is about. Here's another hard one for you, ask your parents to limit the amount of spending money you have each week and to put the rest in a saving account for you. (Also, tell them not to let you have the credit card when you go out). Tell them why - that your friends are taking advantage of you and that you need to use them as an excuse to say you don't have enough money anymore.
Then you will see which friends stay around and which leave, including your gf. Your parents will consider you more mature because you realize that you are being used. Good luck
2006-10-29 08:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW.. first of all your friends can't really put down your girlfriend like that if they're asking you to buy things all the time too and if they're your friends then you don't need to buy them stuff all the time, it's like you're buying their friendship and who wants friends like that? As for your girlfriend tell her that she can't get mad about you not buying her EVERYTHING she wants since I'm guessing she doesn't buy you anything either. You should WANT to buy her gifts sometimes but not feel forced into it all the time. So just tell her she needs to chill out and stop being so greedy and if she has a problem with that then either break up with her or just stop buying her ANYTHING and see how long she stays with you. Hope I helped! =D
2006-10-29 08:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by xobigstarxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the few problems with having money is learning to control it and tell other people "no"..
You lose a lot of people who want to be your friend as soon as you start telling them "no"...
Learn your lesson early...
2006-10-29 07:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to a street bum and rob him of his food stamp card (money) start flashing that around and watch all your friends disappear.....
2006-10-29 07:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by ღсяаՀу∙թіхіе∙ժմѕτღ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋