so shes gaind like 25 pounds cause of her depression she keeps on eating junk food what to do should i dump her or not?
2006-10-29 07:22:12 · 27 answers · asked by CalebD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to ask yourself whether you love your girlfriend for the person she is or for her physical appearance. If you do not love her for the person she is, then, yes, you need to move on.
2006-10-29 07:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Phyllobates 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let me be real with you for a moment. YOU JUST MADE YOURSELF LOOK LIKE A TOTAL DUMBAZZ FOR WHAT YOU WROTE! (EXCUSE MY FRENCH) YOU MEAN TO TELL ME THAT YOU ONLY TALKED TO THIS GURL BECAUSE SHE WAS PRETTY. BABY THIS BODY THAT WE GOT NOW DOESN'T LAST FOREVER NOT EVEN WITH SURGERY! YOU CARE MORE ABOUT HOW SHE LOOKS THEN HELPING HER OVERCOME THIS DEPRESSING MOMENT SO THAT SHE CAN NURSE HERSELF BACK INTO THE STATE SHE WAS IN BEFORE. THIS IS A LESSON FOR THE GUYS OF WHY FEMALES DON'T LET THERE GUARDS DOWN TO EASILY BECAUSE WE ARE AFRAID OF MEETING A SELFISH PERSON LIKE THIS! Now that my blood pressure has decreased my advice to you would be that you need to stick by her side. She can't possibly go through another heartache but just to let you know YOU DON'T DESERVE ANY WOMAN! Also from now on check a person inside because what goes around comes around you will get end up getting someone that does you the same way but worser.
2006-10-29 07:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by ADVICEGURL101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! How dare you even think about dumping her just because she gained some weight!! If the only reason that you started dating her was because she was hot then she would be lucky to get rid of you!!
Since she is going through such a hard time you should be there for her. Tell her that everything is OK.
Just think about how she would feel if she knew that you were actually asking other ppl this!!
2006-10-29 07:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apperently you have never lost anyone close to you in your life, and judging by your question even if you did loose someone as close to you as your mother you probably didn't have the heart to give a damn about them. However you girlfriend just lost her mother let me brake that down for you! She lost the woman that gave her life, the woman that raised her and gave her all she needed. What I think you should do is yes break up with her because I dont think she needs to be dealing with you at this time in her life, she's got a lot on her shoulders and a lot on her mind and she needs somone who's going to help her cope with this and deal with it regardless of what she eats and looks like. She defanently doesn't need a loose like you pressuring her to look good just for your judgment! YOU JERK...
2006-10-29 07:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your a crappy boyfriend...If you like her enough, then you will be there for her and not judge her. Her mom just died and ur thinking of breakin' up with her. NO...you will stick by her and say everything is alright. If you dump her, just think what she might do. She will get through this, she will need help but ur no help if your like "dude, she's fat and she is a total mess" so what, if u like her then u will stay by here...but i bet u will break up w/ her...cuz u only went out w/ her for her looks...SHE IS NOT JUST LOOKS...girls have feelings and it doesnt help that her mom just died...ur a jackass...and if she wants to eat, to help her with her depression let her...gosh...
2006-10-29 07:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? If you do, you could get both of you enrolled in a gym, so it doesn't look too bad. Tell her you're going on a diet, and you want her to join you. Try whatever works if you love her. Dumping her is no good if you guys should be together.
2006-10-29 07:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Wanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's seeking comfort in the foods that made her happy when she was younger. She needs your support. If you lover her, help her out. Let her know that you're there for her and that you're concerned that she's been depressed and eating unhealthy foods. Ask her to come work out with you.
2006-10-29 07:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her mom died dont dump her she needs you. Talk to her about what she is feeling. NOT about her weight though please. She needs your support just be there do not dumb her. Maybe talk to her dad about this or whoever is taking care of her. Tell them that she is really depressed and needs help.
2006-10-29 07:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should dump you...you're a jackass.
It's extremely selfish of you to think of dumping her when she's having a rough patch in her life. You should be trying to support her and making her feel better.
2006-10-29 07:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, her mom did just past away, a little more support and understanding in her time of need. everyone goes through their own depression, and if you can't support her right now, maybe you should not be with her, might be time to move on. good luck
2006-10-29 07:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by julho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋