I'm in 6th grade and there is this really HOT 7th grader that I have really liked for about 3months now. I just found out that he likes me too!!!!!! I don't think that I could EVER like any one as much as I like him. Do you think that my opinion will change?
2006-10-29 07:09:01 · 38 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too young.....now go back to playing with Malibu Barbie.
Does your mother know you on the internet?
2006-10-29 07:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey honey! I'm actually 12 and I'm in 7th grade! Before you make a move, tell yourself what you like about him. I f you find yourself saying something about his looks, popularity, or the fact that he's older than you, then it's probably best just to remain friends. If you think, he's funny, a gentleman, or nice, then maybe you should let him know that you like him. Also consider that since your a year apart, he may be ready for more than you are. I know this may seem weird, but I've changed a lot since last year. Personally, I'm really lucky to have the boy I do now, because we both want the same things in our relationship. I don't think there is an "age limit" on when you can be in love. It all depends on the kind of feelings you have for him. Sometimes, it feels like your in "true love" because you're attached and you love the feeling of having a boyfriend. True love is when you like the person for who they are inside, not because you like having a date to the dance. I hope you honestly think about those things and don't go too fast. Boys can be off and on in liking girls, so don't get too attached yet. And the most important thing is HAVE FUN!
-Tessa
2006-10-29 07:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by tessiemae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This shows just how messed up the world is today. At 11 the only boys you should be thinking about is Nick Carter, Or Justin Timberlake. Somone on T.V that you can admire, not the inmature little boy sitting next to you at D-Hall. You are not going to experience true luv little girl until you realize what love is. At 11 I dont think that any boy or girl will be exposed to anything but trouble mixed with Lust. Though you may not agree to my answer you need to think about what you wanna be when you grow up, and even thinking about how you want to be the first female present! You thinking about how HOT somone is will only get you into a lot of trouble, and a baby in high school! GOOD LUCK KID..and dont rush the process of growing up!
2006-10-29 07:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boys you think are hot at age 11 will not be the same boys at age 21 or 31. But you need those 10-20 years of growing up to understand that.
2006-10-29 07:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun take it from this old lady i know that ur opinion will change i mean u are just starting to reach the stage of liking boys i am sure and there are so many out there all of us have felt like you do at some point in time but just cause u really like someone does not make it true love and that dont mean that u cant like him and that it wont become true love but you are young i can guarentee you will like many more a boy before you find the one that u want to spend the rest of your life with
2006-10-29 07:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you get all tingly when you think about him, and could just about DIE when he smiles at you, you're not in true love. However, in the meantime, you get to do this infatuation/crush thing which is like totally SUPER fun.
That's not to say this isn't the man of your dreams and you'l grow up and get married and have children, but the chances are slim. Have fun, pay attention in class, do your homework, and then go to a dance or the movies with him and your friends.
2006-10-29 07:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by Merelda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look chica, I'm not saying you're too young to be in love, but I AM saying that you're too young to know. I'm only a year older than you and I thought I was in love once, too, but it turns out that I really wasn't. I found out the hard way, and because of that, I will be scarred and heartbroken for life. I don't think anyone should be hurt the way I was, so be careful. Sure, you can go out with him, kiss him, whatever, but just be aware of your feelings towards him.
2006-10-29 07:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kait 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. As yall both get older, you get more mature. However, this doesn't happen at the same rate for everyone. Maybe one of you will grow up faster than the other. That would throw off the whole 'love' thing. Also, what do you like about him, other than his looks? Perhaps he doesn't know anything about you other than you're cute and like him. Things could change once yall get to know each other.
2006-10-29 07:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kallie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well If you are Muslim and the boy has another religion..your opinion will change.As Muslim Girls are not allowed to love another religion person.If you want to break the law of Islam-consider what action the religious people can take against your parents.If you are non religious -everything will be workable.Well if you find some one better than him-your opinion will definitely change.
2006-10-29 07:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not find true love until you've met a person you want to both kill and spend the rest of your life with. True love is not something that develops overnight. It takes years. even decades.
I was once in your shoes sweetie, and I'll tell ya, i look back at it like, "wow.. what was I thinking.." So think twice before you give it up.
2006-10-29 07:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea... You will change... Your only 11... Your probably experiencing lust for the first time... Pretty powerful... Look all I can really tell ya is that you will change. Think about 5 years from now even in 3 you probably will be different. Just remember... You will probably be heart broken more than once... Whether it be lust or love...
2006-10-29 07:15:26 · answer #11 · answered by thaheartoflife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋