This gurl that really hurt me (kristen) Is wanting me to forgive her and be with her! what do i do? she ****** around when she knew i loved her!
2006-10-29 06:55:26 · 14 answers · asked by 96' Subaru Impreza L 2.2l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that sux, i would probably not 4give her. (ps, watch the language)
2006-10-30 08:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by goldfshhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual urges are hard to learn to control. Tell her that she hurt you and if you want to go back with her, then try being friends first without having sex for a while. If she stays faithful and still really wants to be with you then you can take it to the next step again. But if you can't let the past go and still feel angry with her then don't bother unless you can refrain from punishing her for her mistake. Nothing good will come of hurting her back when you should be letting her go. Remember though, the longer you stay with someone you're not sure of, the more opportunities you'll miss to find the right girl. Be good to yourself and only try again if you can heal your own wounds and can really love her and have fun with her.
2006-10-29 15:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by kim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the way that i see it is once a cheater always a cheater and do u really wanna go through that again i have seen it happen so many times to guy friends of mine the woman tries and gets u back because she feels guilty and when she realizes that she only wanted you back to ease her own guilt then she goes and does it again or maybe she is just lonely at the moment but when the next best thing comes along that is when she will go out and do the same thing over again
2006-10-29 14:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people will say, "Don't go back with her! She hurt you!" But the truth is that you need to learn for yourself. Yes, she will probably hurt you again. But, if you want to forgive her and begin a relationship again then go for it. Everyone needs to learn their own lessons in life.
2006-10-29 14:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did she mess up? A long time ago? Recently?
Leave her be. She hurt you, she knew you loved her.
She's just trying to get with someone for the sake of getting with someone. She's probably one of the types that has to have a boyfriend for the mere sake of having one.
2006-10-29 14:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by superangel81beyond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself could you live with your feelings forever. When you are old and all you have left laying in the nursing home bed is your memories what will you be thinking of? Good luck you deserve the best
2006-10-29 14:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by elainecynthia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive her for your sake not hers. If you keep hating her you will be bitter for a long time. I would probably not get back with her but let go any feelings of hatred.
2006-10-29 14:58:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont get back with her. Once they **** around on you, male or female, they will do it again!You're better off without her and finding a better mate.
2006-10-29 14:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by SIVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she screwing around then you shouldn't take her back it's like hoe you know she'll do it again. You gotta find someone that's gonna treat you right. Tell her to leave you the hell alone.
2006-10-29 14:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her, talk about it with her and understand why she did it in the first place. All i can say is have a nice long talk about it
2006-10-29 14:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by shababe07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you sould probably be friends for a while and see where it goes from there.
2006-10-29 14:59:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋