give me an examle of this the situation the intended outcome nd the actual outcome...do men get jealous if they do dores this mean they are truely really in to a woman
2006-10-29 06:53:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, men don't really i think... we're just too simple i think. Take me for instance - i love my girlfriend - but i really love rock climbing - i don't really play games, when i'm climbing i tell her... simple as that. Sometimes when i'm dying to see her i tell her.
Men - we're too thick to play games - we'd forget the rules. If he's playing games with you i reckon he might not be interested :-/
2006-10-29 07:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by colmfiveten 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to know, because you're only going to get answers about what people "think", unless people come on here and say "I play more mind games than my partner"...which I don't see how they'd know for sure anyway, cos does anyone really know when someone is playing mind games? Isn't the whole point that you're not supposed to know?
I'll have a go at answering anyhow! I personally think that it's more about the type of person, than their sex. Insecure people play mind games alot, because they try and trick the other person into committing, or showing how they feel etc, in order to feel more secure in themselves. Unfaithful people play mind games...either to help cover their infidelities, or to try and twist it around to make the other person suffer, because they are feeling guilty about their own actions.
In my own experience, I have played mind games, I was alot younger and I did it to get someone I wanted back....it worked. Whether or not I'd have got him back without the mind games, I don't know, which is something I think about quite alot now!
2006-10-29 07:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They both do. There is a good chance if people play mind games, the relationship won't last. It's not a good idea to play with peoples emotions like that. A small level of jealousy is ok, but if someone is overly jealous they are either trying to control you, or they have low self confidence, and either way its not good.
2006-10-29 06:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by magnolia_76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well myself as a guy I can tell you I did many yrs ago, but now, Im just a lover not a fighter, To start with tho,, Yes Guys do play serious mind games, Back when I was in High School I was dating 2 gals that lived on opposite ends of town, I told them everything they wanted to hear that was gonna keep my Lying butt out of the doghouse, I ended up losing both of them,, when I really was in love with one of them , Jealous,, I dont, If someones gonna mess around their gonna do it and they will be sneaky about it,, why get jealous and throw fits and fight,, I say whoever (but one of them) needs to pack up and go And truly into a woman,, not for sure,, , See Guys may not always wanna bee there cuz they got their buddies to hang with,, and whatever females they can score with while their GF is home taking care of things for him,BUT,, If he was to find out the GF was cheating also,, He would Be SOOOO pissed,, its a territory thing,,, They are like dogs fighting over a bone thas been buried,, He may not want it right now - But By damned, he doesnt want you to have it either, ie- selfish, childish, foolish,and well for most of us, Stupidish,, ow many of us have let our real love get away because of a stupid attitude like Jealousy.
2006-10-29 07:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had my mind played with and it was not nice. Tend to be trusing and believing and it took a good few realisations before the penny finally dropped and the sense of relief to walk away was enormous. This was more to do with the person that his sex......insecure, fearful, ..........but to me now with distance between us he played more mind games with himself than anyone else and will always remain a prisoner to that.
In general think both sexes capable of games.......but depends on the motives and the personality. Observations in life I feel they usually fall foul of themselves in the end.
2006-10-29 07:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebbecca life is one big mind game asking if men play mind games only if they are politicians
no woman are the shrewd ones men only believe they are in charge
2006-10-29 06:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Psycho Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really "mind games" is found in the arsenal of the women to control their men lol
2006-10-29 06:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're serious about each other there's no need to play games. Being truthful works all the time.
2006-10-29 06:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Oh, Marianne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If youre dating Obi-Wan I would say definately watch out for the mind games.
2006-10-29 06:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
They play that game when it comes to sex...
don't you hate it when men say that women play mind games, but they are just hypocrites...they do it as well, but for sex!
2006-10-29 07:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋