ok heres the story, i like this kid and i went out with him in the summer and nothing happened but he broke up with me and he says if i blow him he'll do stuff with me and that good enough for me and now he wants to have anal sex does it hert?
2006-10-29 06:50:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know if "do stuff with me" is an euphemism for sexual acts or a synonym for "hanging out"
If it is the former, do what feels right, practice safe sex and don't be pushed around.
It it is the latter, you shouldn't trade sexual favors for attention.
If you are thinking about anal sex, you should invest in some double thick condoms, some water based lubricant and ask him to be gentle. Some girls think anal sex can be very pleasurable.
Using a condom is important for anal sex because the chances of STD transmission are much higher for anal sex than for vaginal sex. Oh yeah, never use two condoms at the same time. It actually increases the risk of failure for the condom.
2006-10-29 06:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you have to be crazy to believe this boy likes you. You represent one big sex toy for him and that is all. It is one thing for you to do this together but for him to demand this of you in order for him to come around...........no way.
Find someone else that really likes you for just you and not what they can get from you.
And do not ever do anal with him. He can and he may very will hurt you. If not done right and in a very loving matter it will hurt you bad. I doubt he would have your best interest at heart.
You are just a hole for him and you have to take care of yourself.
2006-10-29 06:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he isnt worth it, if he is just going to use you for sex. Please dont do it. Tell him go find someone else, cuz im not easy. If that is all he wants is a bj then all he is going to use u for is sex and other things, you should not be his "toy". Find someone who is worth your time and wont pressure you into doing somthing you dont want to do. Trust me on this, if all he wants is you to blow him or have sex, he has at least one more girl on the side he does stuff with..
2006-10-29 06:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok yes anal sex hurts and if he broke up with you why are you even talking to him.
2006-10-29 06:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by freakkara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 02:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by toborg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the rear is 4 exit only. alot of diseases transpire from anal sex. know that waste is just what it is, waste
2006-10-29 06:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. San 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itis not normal 2 me and i don't no if it hurts
it probably really does hurt the first time just like first sex
2006-10-29 06:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no just make sure he is the one because u shouldnt do something that u or forced or just don't want to do!
2006-10-29 06:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are crazy if you do that,you know?he doesnt love you if he told that.He just want to use you for satisfite his needs?Well that is not your problem it s his problem.
2006-10-29 07:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by Grom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't hurts you! allow him if you're not fearing of child molestation act.
2006-10-29 06:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋