me and mi boyfriend are in love he jus has an anger problem and gets madd too easilly now i was on the phone wit him an d he hung up for no reasson and niw he wont return mi phone calls i dont kno what to do now he is not home we have been together for 7 months what should i do
2006-10-29 06:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to be kidding right??????? Ya, I'd leave him aone! I'D LEAVE HIM PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!! Wake up lady, if he gets upset over stupid things, he will get upset with you and start hitting you for NO REASON! Wake up!
2006-10-29 06:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by gene m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should give him a taste of his own medicine, hang up on him and don't return his phone calls for a while and see what happens. Oh, if he really loved you he would not treat you like that. I also think you better be careful of his anger problem, it could lead to something worse! Maybe you should rethink this whole relationship and stop letting him get away with this treatment.
2006-10-29 14:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Harleygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How big of an anger problem does he have? Does he hit you? Threaten you? Verbally abuse you? If so, contact your nearest Battered Women's Shelter. They will counsel you and help your boyfriend get anger management classes.
If he treats you well but hangs up for no reason, you need to listen to what you say right before he hangs up; then, don't say it anymore.
Every relationship should be based on mutual respect for one another. If that is not the case for you and your boyfriend, either get help or move on.
2006-10-29 14:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sister Christian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He is having an episode
(if this episode ends with you saying sorry when hes the asshole, break up with him a find a real man)
2. He is realizing that you are not perfect.
(If this ends up with him not tolerating your weaknesses, break up with him and find a real man)
3. You need to make a decision
(call him again and leave a messege saying that you really need to talk. However, do not threaten your relationship. Just say, "hey we really need to talk things out." If he doesnt call you back, or if he does and he is an asshole til the end, you kno what to do.
2006-10-29 14:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Learn to spell.
2. Let him cool off. He'll come around. If not, he's not worth your time.
3. He may have an anger problem, but he can control it for someone he loves.
4. Seven months together is not long.
2006-10-29 14:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by superangel81beyond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep your distance. The last thing you want is to be in the middle of one of his temper tantrums. But don't ignore him, because he will grow angry at you, and he probably needs you to help him through this. If you're uncomfortable with him, you should break up, or at least take a "break."
2006-10-29 14:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling him and talk to a trusted adult about it, he may have some serious issues that you are just too young to deal with. good luck
2006-10-29 14:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up. This problems are below any answer.
2006-10-29 14:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone for a while and once he feels like talking again, he will talk to you and answer your calls
2006-10-29 14:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an email.Make sure he can understand your writing.
2006-10-29 14:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋