I love her alot, i know she cares for me, But she cares for someone else even more that isnt good for her and treats her badly, how do i make her love me more. the difficult part is im stuck oversea's for the next 4 1/2 months, so all i can do is talk to her. and shes always asks me why i love her so much. what do i tell her.
2006-10-29 06:49:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
show to her that you love her and show how much you appreciate and admire her
you cannot force someone to love you, just through time
2006-10-29 06:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make some one love you it just doesn't work out ,people are either in love with you or not in love with you. That is just the way of the world, try to talk to her about your feelings for her,see if she may have the same feelings too,If not walk away knowing that you tried at least . This is all you can do, tell her that she is always on your mind morning, day ,and night she's the first thing you think about when you wake and the last thing on your mind when you go to sleep,and she even is in your dreams. If that don't work I don't know what to tell you. good luck
2006-10-29 15:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by datsbigdaddy2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you. If she doesn't love you & has feelings for someone else then it's not meant to be. If that other guy treats her like crap then she needs to figure that out on her own that she also doesn't respect herself enough to get away from someone like that. All you can do is tell her the truth and how you feel. If she feels the same then kudos but if she doesn't then maybe you need to let her go & find someone who cares for you.
2006-10-29 14:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anna Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all can't answer the question she asks you, that's yours to answer. You can't make another person love you, love has to develop from within her. It must be hard being so far away from her, given i'm in a long distance relationship as well, but talking is the next best thing. Always keep in touch and through your conversations express your care for her. Good luck!
2006-10-29 15:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Antigone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you CAN'T make someone love you - they either do or they don't. Sometimes it is better to just leave the person alone and be who you are. If it is meant to be, she will love you. If she loves someone else, I would move on and find someone who really cares for YOU and appreciates YOU as a person. I am sure that the right girl is out there for you! Go find her!!
2006-10-29 14:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by monstergirly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can't MAEK her love you but u can do things to makeher like u more and more. support her current love now. Let her know that u care wats going on in her life and give her advice on her current relatioship..eveni f it's not with you. She'll come around to see that she's with the wrong one and maybe wil turn to you later because you're shoiig that you are aring and there or her when she needs you. For now be her best friend and maybe in those4 1/2 month's you'll be more than just best friends... good luck :)
2006-10-29 14:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by shababe07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you cannot make someone love you. Even if they know deep down that you would never hurt them, etc. If, they do not have that feeling for you, they never will. My best friend from high school was "in love" with me. I was not in love with him. I tried everything to get him to understand that he was too much like a brother to me. He is now married to my sister--happily so. Those feelings never came for me... As much as I knew he would always be there for me, how good he would treat me, that he would do anything for me... I was just never attracted to him. You can keep pushing, and push her away, or move on and find someone that can return your love and keep her as a friend. It may even be better for you to just let her go entirely. I wish you luck! And, a safe return!
2006-10-29 14:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by southernbelle966 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make someone love you and when she asks you why you love her so much be honest with her and see if the feelings there will grow i mean u cant make her not be in the bad relationship that is something that she is gonna have to see for herself trust me i have been there and it really sucks but there really is nothing u can do about it except try to make her see that u would be a much better man for her than the one that she is with and then let her make up her own mind
2006-10-29 14:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make her love you. make sure you send her things overseas like letters and things and tell her how much you care/ love her. whatever you do though, do NOT give up. she doesnt deserve this douche who is treating ehr badly. and let her know that you are always there for her no matter what.
2006-10-29 14:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-29 14:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Max Camer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference between being in love and loving someone.
You can't make someone love you.
2006-10-29 14:54:24 · answer #11 · answered by drudude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋