i asked this girl out and she said yes. We went tp a dance and had a lot of fun. But now my friends want me to hang out with them a lot (i'm pretty popular at school) but I just want to hang with my girl friend what should i do?
2006-10-29 06:45:12 · 24 answers · asked by Kavic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try & make time for both. If u just wanna connect w/ur girl then let ur friends know u'll catch up w/them later. They should understand if not they're not grown up yet to understand. But don't ditch them completely. Everyone needs a friend outside of a relationship. Good luck
2006-10-29 06:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anna Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any healthy relationship requires balance. You wouldn't want to hang out with any one person ALL the time.....trust me, after a while they will totally get on your nerves! Everyone needs their own space from time to time.
You should talk to your friends and let them know that this girl is important to you but so is their friendship. Y'all will have to learn to compromise.
Maybe have certain nights/times that you hang out with your girl and others when you hang with your friends. Do any of your friends have girlfriends? How about a group date night where you all grab some food and a movie....or whatever!
Keep in mind, your girl has her friends too and will want to spend time with them too.....
Talk to your girl and your friends....if they are really your friends they will work with you to find a balance between time with your gal and time with them.
The key is balance......Good Luck!
2006-10-29 14:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dorigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and make time for them both or try to do things with your friends that your gf can do with u all i mean in a relationship you dont need to be with that person 24/7 i know in the beginning that is how most people want it cause it is so new and really exhilerating and all but later on she will want to do stuff with her friends as will you so dont worry it will all come together
2006-10-29 14:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend time with her, and your friends. Maybe invite her to go with you to hang out with your friends. That way they get to spend some time with you, and you still have her around like you want.
2006-10-29 14:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by magnolia_76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that you want to spend time with her right now. however, be careful about how much time you spend with her and not your friends. it is very easy to spend your every free moment with a new boyfriend or girlfriend. but the next thing you know is that all your friends are gone because they feel like you dumped them for the new person. manage your time wisely.
2006-10-29 14:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to tell your friends no, as long as you're not completely ignoring them. You should be able to spend some time with your gf and your friends. Double dates might be a good idea.
2006-10-29 14:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your other friends that you just want to spend time with your girl...make time so you can hang out with your friends at one point and the rest, leave it for you gf
2006-10-29 14:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want....what YOU want...if your friends r good friends they will understand...it's normal that you want to spend time with your girl, go for it...just remember that your friends will still be there when the girl is no longer, so be nice just let em know that you want to hang with the chick.
2006-10-29 14:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK split your time between all of them say every other day u see your girlfriend and every other day u see your mates but if that ain't gonna work for you then try to explain to your mates that you need extra time with her but remember girlfriends will come and go and most mates are there for life
2006-10-29 14:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not obligated to either one. So just balance between both.
If you are busy your girl friend will understand. When you want to be with your girl, do it. Just don't over do it. Keep her guessing but let her know how much you like her and she will come after you.
2006-10-29 14:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋