i love my best guy freind, and i told him but he doesnt love me. he told me he loves one of my close freinds. what should i do?
2006-10-29 06:37:44 · 20 answers · asked by licinia19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has already told you, that he does not love you. Come on now, their is nothing that you can do. You can't make him love you. You need to get your self together, and meet new friends. Hold your head up high. Mr. Right, is out their for you.
2006-10-29 06:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough, but love needs to be two-sided or it is doomed.
Move on and find somebody who loves you back, you deserve it.
And think of it this way, there are 3 billion men on the planet, the chances that only 1 could make you happy is pretty remote.
2006-10-29 06:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him love you girl. Maybe talk to other guys and make them like you, get him jealous, play hard to get. If he doesn't notice and disses you for your friend, he's not worth it. If he ends up getting with her, they won't last very long because, well, they just wont. You'll get a chance with him honey, but unless you follow that one rule "don't date your best friend's ex" But i don't give a crack about that. If we like eachother, then i'd go for it! You should too. Act like you don't need him, he'll come running back to you soon enough. Unless you want to do it the easy way, fight for your man, Not really fist fight but, i'm sure you get my point. GOOD LUCK GIRL â¥
2006-10-29 06:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by annetteXskye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being his friend, and look somewhere else, for you lover. There are plenty of other guys out there, that would make you a great partner. And maybe, your friend might see the light in a little while, hopefully not too late. (ps what does your friend think of him?
2006-10-29 06:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hang back a little, stay best friends..wait for this silly little thing he got for this other bird, then when he has done with her, u are all set to dig in! just make sure that hes happy around you, don;t fight with him, and deffinetly don;t make him uncomfy! you just got to stay in control, calm your self down. ur the girl~ girls take the lead! flirt with him a lil tho, tease him just tht little bit like girls do best. hehe. anyways, if anythin, friendship is very important, so if nothin works out between u, make sure u just don;t loose tht cloesness tht u already have! otherwise, good luck!
2006-10-29 06:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by Alex S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him go and there's always more fish in the sea don't worry about it if you 2 weren't meant to be then just leave it alone and be happy for your other friend
2006-10-29 06:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be pacient, he will soon realize shes
not the one.
I was in a situation like this 2 times
with this one guy.
an.. in the end..
he fell in love with ..ME : ]]]
good luck
2006-10-29 06:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by Cindyyy<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask him what is so good about your friend and see what he says. If it is something that you can't change then don't worry about it. Just move on with your life. Whatever you do, don't go drooling over him and act like you really want him. If you act like you don't like him then he will start to like you.
2006-10-29 06:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a tricky thing, you cant make someone love you, and you can only tell them and hop their feelings are the same, if not you can hope they will change, but dont count on it, just continue to be there for him like you always have. Te ball is in his court
2006-10-29 06:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by varnart 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There you did it...you told him..do you feel better..I think loving someone like that is great ..why?? what if you do hook up...and it doesn't work out...you then lost your friend.....This way you still have your friend's...good luck
2006-10-29 06:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋