well youll proble need more detail to understand this so me and my boyfriend broke up becus of his other baby mama well he was very upset that i beleived her so he drop me and my friend off in the middle of no where so i was mad and started punchin him i know i took it a lil bit out of hand and i felt bad after i got home but anyways when i got home i called his baby mama to see if what she said was true and she said no so i was really upset and i tryed to call him to apologues and his grandmother said she kick him out well i talked to him today and he told me i was a hoe and that he wants me to get an abortion i refuse to get an abortion but i dont know what to do should i keep tryin to patchthin things up or what ! i told him to come over today after work but idk what to say to him please help me!
2006-10-29 06:34:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have an education im sorry that i was writin fast im sure u didnt write all ur **** write and caps and all that shyt! please and prego is a term anybody can use!
2006-10-29 06:51:34 · update #1
have 3 more kids with 3 different men and live on welfare the rest of your life.
2006-10-29 06:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This creep already has another kid to support, so you're not going to get a lot of help from him raising the child. Please let some stable childless couple have the joy of raising your child. Then go back to school and learn to respect yourself better. And learn what to do to not have any more babies until you are MARRIED.
Getting this man out of your life should be a very high priority, and if you keep the child, you're going to have to be dealing with him for the rest of your life. Lose him, and think real hard about being with any other man who already has a child he isn't taking care of. You can do better. Give your child a chance at a good life - it's the best thing for everyone.
2006-10-29 14:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jibba Jabba 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One way or another, this boy will be a part of your life. Let him go. It sounds to me like he is useless! Now you have to focus on yourself sweetheart. Step back and relax. Do you know your options? Try to see a school councillor or go to a family planning clinic to get some help to make the right decision for you. Don't let anyone try to persuade you to do something you are not comfortable with. Remember what I said...he will be apart of your life. If you decide to keep your baby and raise him/her on your own, your b/f will have to step up to the plate and pay child support! Like i said, one way or another....Take one step at a time, one day at a time! Do what is right for YOU!!! Good Luck!
2006-10-29 14:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by evieluvsu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may God help us all
honey - you really need an education. Please consider adoption as neither you nor your boyfriend are anywhere near capable of raising a child together or separately. There isn't one capital or period or comma in your paragraph(s). This should be a red flag in itself - but nowhere near the red flag that goes up for your social skills, economic skills or family studies skills. Please consider counseling and remember that the health and well being of that child COME's FIRST - You are not "prego" - you are pregnant. And thank you at least for recognizing that the child you are carrying is worthy of recognition.
2006-10-29 14:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Take him to the cleaners. You will be getting 25% of his salary for the next 18 years. Go through the court system and get this in place now. You will find another man who will love you and your child. That guy is a scumbag.
2006-10-29 14:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is really tough, but if you don't end up working it out don't forget that after the baby is born he is responsible for child support. You only need to contact your county social service child support department. They will help you get money to support the baby.
2006-10-29 14:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anna F 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you're having his baby and he needs to grow up and get a job that will pay his babies' child support or you'll take it to the courts and THEY WILL take it out his paycheck. Don't fool with this guy anymore, he's a flake.
2006-10-29 14:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by Tericka 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him and if you want to keep the baby then keep it. but keep in mind he does have another child with another woman and they aren't together. does he see his other child, I'd find out why the relationship between him and the other baby's mama didn't work
2006-10-29 14:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the guy sounds like a loser and already has too much drama in his life. right now you need to be concerned about your welfare and health for the sake of your baby.
2006-10-29 14:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry you had to learn the truth about the SOB the hard way, dumpthe slug and hit em hard for child support, there is someone out there who'll love you and your baby! screw the loser!or as they say dump the zero and get with as hero!
2006-10-29 14:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by Phaque tu" 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋