there is this guy i like, and he keeps on flirting with me, and i know he is looking for a girlfriend. but he is considered as a player. but i dont see any girls names in his profile or myspace or anything. and he keeps on calling me. if he asks me out what should i do? yes .? no.? helppppp !! =X
2006-10-29 06:28:58 · 29 answers · asked by cutie :] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does your gut say?
personally, I would leave
2006-10-29 06:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
forget about him if he is a player, if you keep playing along with him, he'll just break your heart and hurt you more if you fall deep for him. Don't let him give you a hard time. Move on and look for someone else. There is just not only him on this planet. There are a million people out there. You are still young and once you get throughout your school years, like further in your life, the Mr. Right will come to you. Trust me, life is still long. Have fun while you can and enjoy all that you can before you get married and settle down.
2006-10-29 06:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
II personally wouldn't if I were your, But, if you decide to take this further, then all I would say is to be very careful, and don't give him your heart (among other parts of your anatomy) without having a long dating relationship. Be very discerning about his motives, and don't be an open book with him right away. Also make sure he is just as open with you as well. Most importantly, always keep in mind that there is a reason that he's gotten this reputation.
2006-10-29 06:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just like some girls are considered a wh*re even if they don't give it up. The same applies to guys. He may not be a player, but maybe that's how others classify him because he wouldn't give them the time or day. If he asks you out, accept, but let him know that he is considered a player and you are not looking to get hurt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 06:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by GrownAndSexy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to make a choice to either give him a chance or listen to gossip. If he is a player it will show itself. Why not take a chance just don't let yourself become too emotionally involved until you get to know more about him. You may find out he is a decent guy or just make yourself a good friend. Or you could find out he is no good and be happy you did not fall for him.
2006-10-29 06:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the society one is in or grew up in that labels human beings as such and is biased. It has not something to do with young children or religious human beings although diverse biases do typically stem from incorrect religious attitudes. I have said that folk who position labels on others achieve this out of there previous - something they were taught, how they were raised, what their acquaintances imagine/say, or relations enter. Bias is a discovered trait as far as i comprehend and the society you're or round in has a tendency to be the only which dictates diverse that. we are all persons and would opt for now to not be that way. We do have loose will you comprehend, yet sadly many do not use it and easily follow the crew determining on now to not imagine for them self. us of a isn't almost as harsh in this as many African, Asian, Arab, and South American close by cultures - verify them out - WOW communicate about over dealing with the problem of lady sexual promiscuity. And the lads - bah - they get no repercussions. Goggle sex subject matters in those cultures - OUCH!
2016-12-05 08:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime it's hard 2 say about a preson .Do you know other that know him.because going into he profile dont mean any thing because some people dont put there self out there 2 other like that .but if you want to get to know him better I would say go go with the guy see what he is about than u would know for your self .Sillydvs
2006-10-29 06:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by sillydvs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a chance, has he ever done you wrong? Until you have reason to doubt him, go for it. Just be careful, 'til you are confident with him. It seems alot of people talk other people down, to make them selves look better. They might be rumors, they might not. Go get him!!
2006-10-29 06:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cmon now...first of all who is this guy considered a player by? Your friends, his friends, or through the grapevine? Keep talking to him maybe a few simple dates, but if you start questioning yourself or him early on...RUN
2006-10-29 06:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by Shannon P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your best judgement and dont go on hearsay from other people feel the situation out for yourself and see for yourself i mean if u really like him and if he asks you out then go on and go for it i mean why judge him on what other people say but if u find out that he is nothing but a player then drop him like there is no tommorrow cause otherwise u are setting yourself up for a serious heartache and that just sucks
2006-10-29 06:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in a high school, than who cares right? It's not like you're gonna end up marrying or anything. That's what high school is about, having fun, flirting, and all that ****.
2006-10-29 06:38:16 · answer #11 · answered by K4R4T3K1D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋