(I finally found out the actual number). Then he became a born again Christian. How can I keep his attention completely on me and get him to marry me ? We do not have stds. He is very handsome and charming but loves women too much and he was badly abused and sexually abused as a child.How do I deal ?
2006-10-29 06:21:58 · 22 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is 36 and Had 200 women a year for 13 years.
2006-10-29 06:28:49 · update #1
He's been looking for something in these women. Maybe, you are the thing he's been looking for? Or, try to find out what he has been looking for, what he likes, and give it to him! If he's been abused then he's going have a few inner cracks. Don't make him ashamed, but let him know you love him and will be there for him. Also, if you are a christian, you can reinforce him that way too. Best wishes...
2006-10-29 06:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Thx 4 All The Fish 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seems a little hard to believe? How old is he?
He would have had to sleep with a different women every other day for roughly 12 years.
I do wonder what your fascination is with him (other than very handsome), if you are having trouble getting him to pay attention to you why would you wish to marry him? I know i would not like to be "Miss 2251".......
It is sad about the sexual abuse - maybe some therapy might help focus him.
Good luck what ever you do.
2006-10-29 06:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that is alot, if you love eachother you should give him time because his childhood has obviously had a great effect on him as an adult.
He will eventually stop sleeping round, because it will ruin his relationships. Is he sleeping around now?
Ask him if hes ever considered counselling for the abuse hes had in the past. All you can do is help him, dont pressure him (as this was done when he was little), learn to accept him as a person.
2006-10-29 06:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's obviously an issue that you are finding hard to deal with. You need to ask yourself if you can live with and love him knowing this. It could be destructive in the relationship if you keep questioning him about it. Is he proud of the fact??? Are you in a monogomous relationship. When I met my partner we were older and know neither of us have been angels in the past but we are commited to eachother nd the past (relationships) are irrelevant. Is he using his love of women as an excuse? My partner loves women too but he is commited to our relationship and wouldn't dream of being unfaithful. As far as the sexual abuse as a child, this is something that maybe needs outside help, as in outwith the relationship. If you have these doubts, is marriage the first thing that you should be contemplating??? Good luck, use your head, not just your heart xxxx
2006-10-29 06:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by minitheminx65 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh... first of all that is a 'lot' of women... If he were to have slept with one every single day it would still take him some 6 years to pull it off!
Secondly, you need to consider the possibility of him having... erm... a 1%+ impregnation success rate... meaning some 23 kids or so...
Thirdly, you sure know how to pick them! For this guy to become faithful to yourself I imagine it would take either physical shackles (with heavy chains, eye bolts and no tools in sight) or some severe hypnosis.
Before you go to such trouble ask yourself if this person is worth the risks of heart-ache that you may be setting yourself up for.
Sorry for the negative outlook... 2250 women is a 'lot' of women... Good luck!
2006-10-29 06:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by shadow_cup 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What! I cant do the maths quickly but thats 3 or 4 women a week for how long.....??? And you want to know details.... he'd be lucky to remember a few names among that lot. I feel he must be lying. Why would you want to 'get' him to marry you? If he wants to, he will ask you? You would be advised to declined. He can have little respect for his own body...... and his must be too tired to get married!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-29 07:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With great difficulty by the sound of things. he needs counselling and think if you intend to stick by him you should go along too.
ok so he's clean from disease... and he still loves women very much i'd think long and hard about commiting to this man and if you do .. you must accept him as he is
Good luck to you both
God Bless
2006-10-29 06:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your bf HAS NOT SLEPT with over 2250 women. He is lying to you. If he really did have sex with that many women, that means that he has absolutely no life: he has no job, never went to school, and just doesn't do anything productive with his life. etc..you catch my drift? I know you love him, but he is lying to you...no man on this earth has slept with that many women! Men lie about that kind of stuff, so it's best not to ask. Once again, he DID NOT sleep with over 2250 women...that's just one big old bogus lie.
2006-10-29 06:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by CustomBentley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Egad. The only 'thing' that 'has' so many women is the seat in a public toilet, and that doesn't say much about him. I don't think you got your stats right. Anyway, your bf certainly needs therapy.
2006-10-29 07:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by netwalker01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him a medal darling if he can s*** that many women he should be in the Olympics has some stamina i feel even twenty two is a high number forget it he is a bloody dreamer trying to bug you Dave
2006-10-29 06:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by Psycho Dave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋