ok so my boyfriend (or ex-boyfriend now) hasn't been paying attention to me. for instance sometimes i felt like i wasn't even going out with him. And then last night he pretty much told me he was only in our relationship for sex. since im still a virgin and will be till im out of highschool. And he got mad. which made me feel like thats all he wanted in the relationship. So i broke up with him yesterday (we were together for 7 months). Would it be wrong to go out with one of his friends? we would go out in 3 months and he is going to ask my ex if it is ok. is that really mean?
2006-10-29 06:15:36 · 17 answers · asked by ♥_pink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his friend knows that i won't have sex with him we like eachother for who we are not what we could do with eachother
2006-10-29 06:26:39 · update #1
no i mean it is really up to you who u date not your ex and if he wanted to go and play games like that then u deserve something better just make sure that this man is not out for the same thing as your ex was and really he does not need permission to date you i mean it is nice of him to ask your ex if he would have a problem with it cause that shows true friendship there but really you dont need his permission and no you are not wrong or being mean to anyone
2006-10-29 06:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though you have lost a boyfriend over this not having sex is the best way to tell if he really cares for you. Clearly your ex did not.
There is a reason they call it "ex". You are no longer together. So what you do and who you see is up to you only. Your ex has no say in it what so ever.
The friend should not feel obligated to ask him as you are no longer together.
No matter what you do always remember sex only gets in the way of a true relationship unless your married. Once you begin with that you stop getting to know each other. That is never good.
i do hope this new guy is telling you the truth. Some guys view this as a challenge. If he can get you in bed and his friend couldn't it will be a notch on his belt. So watch out for that.
2006-10-29 14:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think its NOT mean...but if ur ex was only in the relationship for sex then thats messed up and u don't need him...but if u really like his friend then NO its not mean or wrong it might feel like it but its not in this case...
2006-10-29 14:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by ~ *Shawty* ~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, congratulations on breaking up.
Secondly, dating your ex's friend can be messy, you should avoid it if you can.
Try to find someone else, but I guess that in three months you could still try ex's friend, just be careful.
2006-10-29 14:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. If he's friends with your ex, he probably already knows that you want to remain a virgin and maybe just maybe he respects that and wants to go out with you for who you are.
2006-10-29 14:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Silly ol Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is, but it's not..ok..let me make it clear:
did you like your ex bf in the first place? but it's not wrong to go out with his friend because you can tell him that you and his friend actually liked each other not just for sex, but you liked each other because of who you are and who he is. and it's kinda wrong too, IF you liked him.. but if not really, then it's fine. because if you liked hima and then go out with his friend, it's kinda tacky. you know? but if you didn't like him that much then it's ok.
2006-10-29 14:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't need to ask your ex,your ex is an a**,he only wants you for sex,you did the right thing by dumping him,don't let any one change your mind,
2006-10-29 14:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by boozer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be wrong since your ex apparently did not care for you anyway. You shouldn't wait so long to date this other guy in my opinion.
2006-10-29 14:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is a jerk...sorry for this but i am a guy myself so guys shouldnt be behaving like this...anyway i think it is ok to go out with your ex's friend provided he is thinking straight...
2006-10-29 14:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by alienlimguni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah. If you haven't shagged don't worry about it. The ex will get over it. Be discreet though.
2006-10-29 14:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by mattJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋