I care about someone deeply, in fact, more than I realised recently. I have had feelings for about six years. In the main I have kept them to myself for various reasons.
Six years ago this man pulled me out of a dark place, a period of grieving for loved ones who passed since he took the time and effort to speak to me, when everyone closed the door in my face, this I will always be grateful for.
At first it was infatuation, I thought it was a phase and thought it would pass. But my feelings for him have grown over the years.. I have tried to resist it, but I almost succeed in getting over him something pulls me back. He has always been very kind to me, despite his general reputation for not being a nice person. So I have had no reason to really dislike him
I don't see us together in the future
But in the next few months it will be crunch time - do I tell him how I feel about him or just walk away quietly and keep it to myself? What is the best way to move on?
2006-10-29 06:15:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why have you waited so long? Obviously he cares about you. Why else would he be there for you after you said no one else was and t that he normally wouldn't do that for anyone? Tell him how you feel. What do you have to lose? What if he says that he wants to be with you? You would miss out if you didn't tell him. It is better to know right?
2006-10-29 06:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't see u as a couple, why are you asking the question. Sounds like a great friend that you will be forever grateful for being there. You can tell him you may want to date and see, take the risk....never know.
2006-10-29 06:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by strong1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is dificult..it depends how much you like him!!sounds like you love him..i think if it was me i would tell him how i felt,at least this way you can move on without him if he rejects you!!he may however feel the same and needs you to tell him!go for it or you may regret it..good luck xx
2006-10-29 06:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will only regret it, the feelings will not go away.
2006-10-29 06:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by XhappytalkX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll,,depending where you wish to move on to...If you wish to pass away..well there are various methods..
2006-10-29 06:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
personally i would tell him, but then again i would have done that years ago
2006-10-29 06:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by seven_ms_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋