My girlfriend freaked out and won't have sex with me anymore because she is afraid of getting pregnant. I tried to tell her it would be okay with multiple methods of birth control, but she still refuses. We used to have an awesome sex life. She's so good to me, but since we don't have sex anymore, it is making me miserable, even though she is much happier. Should I just suck it up or what?
2006-10-29 06:07:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-29 06:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by mel416 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try new things, sex does not have to mean penetration. You might find that you can both get satisfaction without the risk of pregnancy just by becoming more creative with your fingers and tongues.
If that doesn't work then maybe your gf has issues that run deeper than just a fear of pregnancy.
2006-10-29 14:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex, don't force her. It's not good for the relationship. Respect her phobia of pregnancy because hey, you're not gonna be the one getting abortion or walking around with a basketball in your stomach for 9 months.
2006-10-29 14:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up.She will respect you for for not pushing her into doing something she didnt feel like doing.You may be miserable but guys arent the ones that have to have kids.Youd be a little scared too if you were the one who might end up having a kid.
2006-10-29 14:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, really I do... If you still love her and want to be with her then suck it up and keep going. But if sex is more important to you than the relationship then drop her and look for someone else.
2006-10-29 14:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnt just suck it up, your happiness is just as important as hers. Maybe there's more to it then her just getting pregnant. You should talk to her and tell how you feel. You might also want to look a little deeper into your relatioship and make sure that it's not based totally on sex, and that you havn't made her feel that way.
2006-10-29 14:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's probably for the best, what with accidental pregnancy and diseases. If you're miserable not being able to have sex with her you might want to re-think your ideas about love and commitment.
2006-10-29 14:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is much happier? If you want sex, break up with her and move on!
2006-10-29 14:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her suck it up. She will eventually break down and want to get with you again.
2006-10-29 14:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should because she doesn't wanna take the risk of getting pregnant cause they only work about 60% of the time of saving her from gettin pregnant
2006-10-29 14:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by smarty9876543212000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, if shes happier w/ not doing it, then u should respect that and wait till she wants 2 again
2006-10-29 14:10:15 · answer #11 · answered by jEsSiCa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋